I'm just feeling so depressed, because I miss my boyfriend so much, and I know that I can live without him, but I don't want to. There isn't a much more horrible feeling than not wanting to go on living the life that you are living. I know that he is coming back home to me in September, but I don't want to wait that long. Advice?? Thanks.
2006-07-13 17:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can already cook all of his favorite foods, and play guitar. I don't have time to volunteer, because I have a full time job that leaves me exhausted. I talk to him about once every few days, because i am so busy, with getting ready for college and working. I just want him to come home.
2006-07-13 18:02:27 · update #1
I have been crying myself to sleep for about a month and a half now, and I just don't want to do that anymore.
2006-07-13 18:07:02 · update #2
I'm already seeing a shrink, and I'm already on meds. I'm so sick of meds, and they aren't helping at all. The only thing that is going to help me, is my boyfriend coming home, nothing else.
2006-07-13 19:35:07 · update #3
Get English friends. When you tell them anything and stop in the middle of a sentence or without spilling all the beans, they'll look at you with big eyes and say "go on!" and that's nice. So, go on.
Seriously, if you'll stray just a teeny tiny bit from the Goth attitude and .. not too often of course.. walk through the woods, breathe fresh air, catch a few rays of sun, and break into a slight sweat by hiking, running or cycling a bit.. I started that too a long time ago (I'm an auld git the now) and it's true that exercise makes you happier. Happy goths are rare, I know, who's to say you can't take a hike in a dark dress and boots that run up to your thighs. Especially forest walks look good on the moody. Rampant sex is also an option of course, but maybe you'd want to put that on hold till yer bf gets home.
Lastly: please don't go. The world is shite enough as it is, don't make it worse by going elsewhere.
2006-07-17 07:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
a little time apart isn't such a bad thing even though it seems tragic now believe me you can make up for lost time absence makes the heart grow fonder( corny but true!) but if you don't start thinking of yourself as an individual with Friends and family outside of this relationship you will regret it later ... don't be just his girlfriend be your own best Friend and take care of you.. just a suggestion ... your young and on your way to college why not get a job you enjoy until then.. you don't have to be miserable girl... spend time with an old high school girl Friend you may have put on the back burner because of this relationship or hey find someone who also has a boyfriend who is out of country maybe a support group of some kind ... find yourself and smile September isn't so far away!
2006-07-14 02:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by tinamarie73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some joy elsewhere until he returns....perhaps by going and doing some volunteer work for someone you will find your spirits lifted. If you are feeling lonely, imagine someone in a nursing home who has no visitors. Maybe you could make yourself and someone else feel better at the same time. I know that they appreciate volunteers who read or just talk to the patients. Good luck and I hope you start feeling better soon.
2006-07-14 00:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lilah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that you seriously need to see a shrink it reallllly helps meds are the only things that help me dont worry he'll be home before to long i promise my brother has been in iraq 4 2 yrs. as for the love part i no this aint the same thing but me and my x been broke up for 6 mos. i still get depressed and cry over him trust me thats true love dont let him go it will only hurt both of u
2006-07-14 02:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of a goal for when he gets back in September so you can be even more fabulous than before! Maybe you want to learn how to play guitar or paint or even just spend more time with your friends. Set a goal, dedicate some time to it, and you'll start feeling better.
Good luck!
2006-07-14 00:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by amarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are placing too much emphasis on how he makes you feel. Think about something else. Do some volunteer work. Take up a hobby. Do something nice for yourself or a friend or family member. He shouldn't be your whole life.
2006-07-14 01:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Melusine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call or email him and tell him for you're feeling right now. I'm sure that you will feel better when he tells you how much he loves you and that he's feeling the same way you are. He misses you dearly as well and feels horrible and depressed for being away from you.
2006-07-14 00:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by David T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a cousin whose girlfriend studies in Australia while he far away. Moreover, my cousin is away at National Service and raely gets to chat with his girlfriend. It started since February and will end most probably December and their relationship is still going strong.
Please be strong, my dear. I know you love him but tell you what; HE WOULDN'T WANT TO SEE YOU DEPRESSED LIKE THIS. He'd be happy if you are happy and he would sad if you're sad. As simple as that. So if you love him and want to make him happy, then be happy, my dear. That's all he'd ask from you.
2006-07-14 02:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by nonentity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going threw. What you need to realize is that you boyfriend wouldn't want you feeling so blue. Try taking up a hobby. Learn to cook all his favorite foods, read his favorite book just try to keep your mind busy. Good luck
2006-07-14 00:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. I love you more than you will ever know, and I'll be back before you know it. I hate knowing that you are depressed and crying. Maybe I'll be able to come home a little bit sooner. I LOVE YOU BABY!!! XOXOXO
2006-07-14 01:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jill's_Pirate_Master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋