2006-07-13 17:51:36 · 13 answers · asked by Curious George... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't know, don't freak out. Its no big deal! Take your time and don't worry about it.
Someone once said "Theres as many kinds of sex as there are people in the world." Because no two people see eye to eye on any issue, maybe close, but theres always room for differences.
If your not sure yet, just back up and think for a while, what attracts you, what doesn't. Is there a reason to be in a hurry? If so, why? If you date one sex, will it keep you from dating another to make sure that your not attracted to them, and if so, why? Do you have a physical preference in build and if so, what is it? Are you looking for a certain type? Why? In other words, DON'T PUSH IT, you may reget hurrying this decision. However by taking your time, you'll be sure. This IS YOUR DECISION, don't let someone else make it for you.
Believe me, I was never in any doubt, ever. It wasn't a choice I could make. It simply was.
Homosexuality isn't who you have sex with, its who you LOVE. You can have sex with anyone. But you don't fall in love with just anyone.
Bisexuality is the same, only you can fall in love with either sex.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 17:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, just sit in a chair facing a blank wall and think of a material thing that turns you on such as using handcuffs or whipped cream. When you become aroused the first person that you think of will tell you. If you see a girl, you're straight, a guy sorry, but you're gay and if you imagine seeing a guy and a girl you're bi. Hope this helps.
2006-07-13 18:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're very young or in denial you know. I always say to the people I counsel to use the "kissing idea" . Imagine kissing an attractive guy (i'm thinking you're a guy) not just a peck or whatever you see in the movies..REALLY kissing...if that turns you on then you're probably gay. If you need to think of a woman to kiss to be eroused, well then you're probably straight. I use the kissing theme, because believe it or not, kissing is WAY more intense and personal and giving of yourself then just sex. You can detach during sex, because it's about one thing. You can't detach when that person is 0 inches away
2006-07-13 18:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just start out by saying it is a choice. God says to marry men if you are a woman or marry a women if you are a men. It is best that you do what God says to do so that you can have the best in the after life. That will be one less thing for you to worrry about on the day of judgment
2006-07-13 17:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by y buug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question - too hard to just answer with a quick one liner. If you're that confused, you may be bi. I mean, if both genders "arouse" you on a frequent basis, then my guess would be bi. But, whatever you discover, please take this advice! NEVER let anyone try to convince you that you are something that you're not (or that you aren't something that you are!).
2006-07-13 17:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be what you want to be. It is your choice whom you have sexual relations with. If you have female sex organs, the male would make a perfect anatomical fit for sex. If you have male sex organs, the female would make a perfect anatomical fit. If you chose a partner of the same gender as yourself, you will have to resort to anal and or oral sex only and you cannot produce offspring. You will only end up sleeping around with everyone if you want to have sex with both genders. That seems like even more confusion to me.
2006-07-13 17:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur attracted to girs u r straight if u find urself looking at girls and guys (with sexual thoughts) you are bi or if u think about guys in a sexual way ur gay
2006-07-13 17:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by green eyed chika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE STRAIT YOU JUST FCK THE OPPSITE SEX. IF YOU ARE BI THEN YOU FCK BOTH SEXES.YOU ARE GAY IF YOU ONLY FCK THE SAME SEX.WHAT PART OF THAT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND,BUT IF YOU WANT YOUR DICK CUT OFF AND TURNED INTO A WOMAN THEN YOU ARE RIGHT YOU ARE CONFUSED AND NEED TO BUY A GUN AND END ALL THE CONFUSSION
2006-07-13 18:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by askmeanything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guys ive u boners ur gay if chicks straight IM me and ill tell u a better way(not bein sick)
2006-07-13 17:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by anthonyusa3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is, is why brand yourself under any one name??? straight, bi or gay??? you like what you like and that is that......just go for it and dont worry what others may think
2006-07-13 17:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋