My girlfriend doesn't seem like she ever wants to play around...when i try to flirt and play around with her..she just sits there...but, like 2 minutes later she is playing around..i don't get it...(i prefer women to answer please..)
2006-07-13 17:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jesse W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say ,
there isn't a switch you turn on,
to make her turn on~!
Sounds like she maybe the type that likes, ( needs)
Some teasing ~ flirting ~ some foreplay ~!
I think if you did that at a slow romantic pace,
Everything will work out ~!( she will be in the mood )
~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-13 17:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes to be the one who is "in control" and begin the flirting and don't know if that is her nature, but there is a fine line here. Sometimes people who need to be in control with flirting, sexually, carry it over to your every day lives too. Meaning that she then wants to control what you're doing, where you're going, etc........So you have to figure out, do you like it or not? If it bothers you, talk to her about it. Ask her why she does this, COMMUNICATION is key in any relationship. Then if things change or get better, you'll know the direction you are heading in, is a positive one! Good luck! Or is it that you like to be the one who is in control all the time? Maybe you are uncomfortable with her, being the one who would initiate things? Maybe then, you want to take a look at yourself too, and see what you can do differently too!
2006-07-14 00:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just isn't in the mood to play around and after you stop she feels guilty - like she hurt your feelings or let you down. Don't take it too personal. She may have something on her mind, ask her what's up. She'll give you the only answer that will make a difference.
2006-07-14 00:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by pjt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels irratated and annoyed by you. Do you play around a lot, maybe she just doesn't feel like it at the moment, wait for her, or just ask her whats wrong, your self.
2006-07-14 00:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's trying the "hard to get" role. Or maybe she just sucks at flirting? It's hard to tell. But don't stop flirting... that'll probably make it worse. Maybe you'll help her improve with time!
2006-07-14 00:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe teasing you and playing hard to get. So if I was you I would just keep my hands to myself and tell her the same.
2006-07-14 00:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to get used to the environment, u know. Just go slow and allow her to start doing it.
2006-07-14 00:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by K.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are like that you just gotta give them space and let them do things in their in own time.
2006-07-14 00:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweethp1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prob is just scared of things moving to fast when u take the intiative. dshe may feel more comfortable doing it herself. give it time all will work out for the best gl. :)
2006-07-14 00:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by marcia r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Well i use to do that,.. in the moment i would get shy or i dont know i just could respond but i would respond after the fact... she'll get better...give her a chance
2006-07-14 00:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋