Ok, I have my boyfriend... Ok?
But, I really really like this other guy!!!
I've liked him ever since elementary school!! But, I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore!
But I really really really like the other guy!!!
people I need advice!!
What should I do?!?!
2006-07-13 17:29:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is... I dont know how to break up with him!! I can't do things others can... I'm REALLY bad at break ups!!
2006-07-13 17:34:56 · update #1
Ok... this might be better...
How do I break the news to him that I wan't to break up with him!?
2006-07-13 17:41:17 · update #2
Ok... this might be better...
How do I break the news to him that I wan't to break up with him!?
2006-07-13 17:41:18 · update #3
I don't wanna cheat!! I've never cheated in my life!!
2006-07-13 17:43:27 · update #4
if you dont really love your boyfriend, why are you with him? if you really like the other guy, go for him. however break it off with your boyfriend first. even if you dont really love him anymore, he doesnt deserve to be hurt. goodluck!
2006-07-13 17:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I've gotta say, from recent experience, I would rather be broken up with than cheated on. Just tell him how you feel about the relationship, and tell him you don't have the same feelings anymore. Try to avoid telling him about the other guy you're interested in, however. It's really unnecessary, and it would probably do more harm to him than good. Just remember, if you still care about him, treat him like you do. Don't just blow him off after 3 years and go get engaged to this other guy without saying anything about it and playing it off like nothings going on til you drop the car that you've been borrowing for 6 months off without a shred of compassion or courage to admit what you have done to him. It just hurts way too much.
2006-07-13 17:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Derrick_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you no longer have a thing for your bf i suggest you break up with him, it sure will take some courage but before just sort out in your head if you really wnat to take this step for the other guy.
And if after pondering over it, you realise you really have nothing left for your bf ,i suggest you take the step of breaking up. It really is very futile to carry on a relationship based on lies because it does no one any good.
you should not let your relationship with anyone be plauged by lies.
2006-07-13 17:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by aj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first- chill out. Calm down. I think the asnwer is obvious. Go back and read your own question. What do you say in favor of this other guy? You really really like him, you've liked him since elementary school. In favor of BF? he's... your bf. The only question I see is... why are you even going out with your boyfriend in teh first place? Your heart obviously belongs to the other guy. So go out with him! unless he doesn't like you back, in which case there's no point stressing over it.
2006-07-13 17:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out your feelings for your boyfriend first then decide about the other guy. sometimes you can like a guy for a long time and its nopt really that you like them anymore its just habit to have that feeling. dont give up on a relationship your already in unless you know for sure its over
2006-07-13 17:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and really think what you want babe. If you really want the other guy break up with ur bf..and move on
2006-07-13 17:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by nsms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as this other Guy goes, This is what I say. If he will do it with you, (take part in the cheating on of said current boyfriend) then he will do it to you. (cheat on you).
2006-07-13 17:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your bf....does this other guy like you?....dont ruin something good...try taking a lil break from your b/f nd if you start to miss him then dont worry bout the other guy but if you dont then end the relationship
2006-07-13 17:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by soccergurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like u want the other guy. Talk abt it with ur bf (if he will understand u) andstart talking to the other guy.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 17:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by K.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not married play the feild until you decide
2006-07-13 17:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋