While in Lowes, my husbands ex fiance walks up to him, kisses him on the jaw,looks at me and leaves. I didn't know who she was until he told me. I was livid with anger. Why wuld he allow her to do that? I was so hurt that he didn't introduce me as his wife. I told him it better not happen again.
2006-07-13 17:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by IwishIwaspretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He said he knew he was wrong. He was just so stunned to see and speechless.
He cried and said this will never happen again. Should I let him sweat a little or no?
2006-07-13 17:30:59 · update #1
Too many possibilities and not enough background to get info from people online. I'd suggest asking him (or her), not us :)
You would stab him? wtf is peoples problems on here. You didn't say he kissed her back.. you didn't say if he was shocked. What if she kissed him and caught him off guard. What if he didn't know what as going to happen until after it happened? Maybe she's a psycho ex wanting to cause problems ? jeezez peoples. You have NO information to give ANY sort of advice on this question. UNLESS this questioner gives more information!!!
I only say this coz I had an experience once.. somebody kissed me.. I was not expecting it.. it put me into shock and it's not like I let this person do it!!!
2006-07-13 17:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by game buddee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was a really d i c k move on his part! I would let him sweat it out for a while. Honestly I would want to make him a little worried and jealous back. Not saying to do that but I would want to something back so he can feel what you feel. Maybe next time you say hello to any man don't introduce your husband if he is standing right next to you. If you aren't important then he isn't either. Let him see how that feels if you smile and greet another man you know but don't explain who the guy is and don't introduce them unless the guy asks in front of your husband.
2014-08-17 21:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like the former fiancee gave him much of a chance to react. As you said, she kissed him on the jaw, looked at you and left. Please note also that she kissed him on the jaw, not the lips. I'm pretty sure I would not have had your reaction. Why do you not trust this guy? Why did you marry him if you don't trust him? Thought you could change him?
2006-07-13 17:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd make him sleep on the couch untill he fesses up what that was all about. If he dumped her for you, maybe she has something on him that would blow you away. She's got something, or she wouldn't have done that. I'd get to the bottom of it before I allowed his life to be normal again. I'm a guy, but that's what I think.
2006-07-13 17:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. Her actions were unacceptable - don't kid yourself, if she didn't know that you were married to him then she had to have realized that you were important. Tell him how much it bothers you and CALMLY advise him that if he doesn't want a major scene - where you pull her hair out and stomp on her face - then if you see her again, he should immediately keep space between them and introduce you as the love of his life. I'd be tempted to find her and tell her myself. Congratulations on doing the right thing and not knocking the hell out of her.
2006-07-13 17:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by pjt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you have described, it would seem that your husband did not know his ex was going to plant one on him. And if she just left, how could he introduce her to you.
Somethings are just better ignored. The ex probably knew you were his wife and just wanted to rattle BOTH of you.
2006-07-13 17:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by clarence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that is sooo weird. I cant believe she just kissed then walked away? It sounds like she has some issues to deal with. It sounds like she is still into him and just wanted to push your buttons. Do you think your husband expected her to do that? He picked YOU! do not let that beeatch get to you.
2006-07-13 17:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow,thats totally rude and hurtfull.
maybe not the best way but if i were u ill find her fill her up w/ swear words and then kick her f***ing a**.
crazy b****!!!!!!!!!!
its not ur husbands fault,really!i think hes telling u the truth.
well u know him better.if u trust him blieve him,if u don't u'd have enough time to kick his a**!which i think better not happen.
dont worry,evrything's gonna b fine w/ u and ur husband.
2006-07-13 17:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first slow your roll, take it easy, you act like they were making out in front of you, this is what she wants , she wants it to get to you, she wants you to be talking about it for weeks abd you and your man be arguing for weeks. dont do it, get over it. it is not like he asked her for a kiss, he didnt know she was going to come up to him and lay a big kiss on him. dont blame him for something she did. if there is a next time, have him be ready and warn you if she is coming, that way you can lay a big one on him before she gets a chance to and just hang on him flashing your wedding ring. she is trying to make you jealous, why dont you play her game.thats your man fight for him and dont let her get to you. good luck
2006-07-13 18:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was as shocked at her bahavior as you were. Be glad he married you, and instead of threatening him, tell him how glad you are to be his wife. Show him why he's better off with you instead of making him wonder about it!
2006-07-13 17:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋