I've been with this guy for several months now. He wants me to start spending nights at his place, but I don't think I would like to. We are sexually active, but I never spent nights with anyone before. What and how do I tell him that I don't think it's a good idea?
2006-07-13 17:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that although you enjoying spending time with him, and being around him, you just feel comfortable sleepin in your own bed, by yourself, and that it would take a little time for you to adjust to sleep w/ him in the same bed b/c you r used to being in your own space. Mabey there is some kind of undrelying fear or something. Good luck
2006-07-13 17:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by yelloerose07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care about him but you have never spent the night at a man's house and it would be very uncomfortable to you. If he cares about you, he will respect you. Just tell him to give you some time and when you are ready you will let him know.
2006-07-14 00:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight forward honesty is the best policy with me.
2006-07-14 00:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by hey you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him..
2006-07-14 00:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want or rather need more time thats all
2006-07-14 00:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u think its a good idea? dont you like him?
2006-07-14 00:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋