can sum one help me
2006-07-13 17:00:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's either you can or you can't. If you can't then you can't. Unless a girl likes you.
2006-07-13 17:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sonny M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason to me why you probably cant talk to women is that, your probably trying to make sure you say all the right things and I guess you could say trying to sound like mr. smooth, but it doesnt come out like that at all in your situation. In my opinion I really really think you should just keep it real, be you. You can never go wrong be yourself, because if you fake the front at first and she likes that person then you will have to be faking the front the whole time... feel me? Good luck papi
Dont fake it either because in the end youll be right back in the same spot.
2006-07-14 00:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by la negra tiene tumbao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you're not succeeding enough in your personal life. With that, you'd get more confidence.
I think it's important for young men to understand that a modern definition of manhood should not hinge on, or be relative to, women. So, the sum of my advice is, improve yourself and don't think about women as "women." Think about them as just classmates or coworkers. Don't let it consume your mind.
2006-07-14 00:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in this case what you have to do to raise self-confidence first. Try to looking somethin` in yourselves that you mastered the most, such as good in sport or science, bialogy or math..etc. When you find out, keep on talking to yourselves that you have somethin` that could be proud of. Try to help people by that sincerely so that you feel somethin` and usefull to others. All can raise your self-confidence.
When it has rised, definitely you could talk to women, even with any reason.........
2006-07-14 00:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww thats okay... a lot of people have your problem. but seriously, just be yourself...who cares if you're dorky , weird, or what ever the case may be...the truth is, we might like you for that. but number one rule...don't come off as a dick, and too agressive, most women i think well at least i do, do not like that. so just act calm, and be yourself no matter what. hope that helped. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-14 00:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by oh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try not and think about it so much..I know how I get around certain guys sometimes..I feel like everything I will say will be stupid or soemthign so I just dont talk...adn that doesnt help at all..just be yourself I guess..I hope that somewhat helps!!!!
2006-07-14 00:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Tall_Cool_One♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.and attend some parties usually.keep relaxing.keep practising.dont forget to improve yourself in order to make you more
attractive.all in all,confidence is very important, try to learn to be a humourous man.ok!
2006-07-14 00:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, be yourself. It's not what you say that is important. You dont have to be clever. Just be nice and talk about simple things only if its the weather.
2006-07-14 00:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you say "sum" instead of "some".
2006-07-14 00:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by jasenlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to them like open the door, make sure they are seated and work out. women like men with hot bodies who are also gentlemen.
2006-07-14 00:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god love ya dont be shy let all that charm come out it will be all ok just go up and start a conversation and let it flow from there goodluck : )
2006-07-14 00:04:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋