wat do all of u think abt long distance relationship? i knew this guy online and i fell in love with him...and he fell in love with me too... wat do all of u think? i need some serious advice... thank u!!!!
2006-07-13 16:40:34 · 24 answers · asked by sadgal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not sure about your relationship, then there's something inside you that's saying it's incomplete. That, or your in the relationship to be in the relationship, rather than because of the other person.
Long-term relationships are nice sometimes. They give you a time to explore intimately the other person's intellect, spirit, and emotions. You are in a situation where physical proximity doesn't detract from that stuff. But, there are a few things that you arent doing. You aren't with each other in less-than-ideal situations. It's different when I chat with someone or take her out to dinner. That's a short time when she can behave and show me her best side. I don't get to see her when she's sick, upset, jealous, frustrated, or facing any of the other normal parts of life.
So, there are some definite drawbacks to long-term relationships.
Whatever they are, you can work around them eventually, or choose to move on in your life.
The important thing here is that you know the answers. Listen to the whispering in your heart, and you'll find that you've got all the answers, that you're wise and clear. I trust that you are finding this clarity even today.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 16:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Geni100 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was in the same situation. I met a guy online (well he was my cousin's ex boyfriend so i knew he exsisted) and we fell in love and i met up with him and we managed to see each other like once a week, it was a long distance relationship. But here's my advice: long distance relationships are HARD TO KEEP UP WITH. Only do it if:
a) you know the guy DEFINITLY exsists.
b) you think it's worth it.
2006-07-13 16:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by saraaax3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u guys can work it out. If u r really into it u can manage to continue despite the distance. I'm actually working out a long distance relationship too
2006-07-13 16:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Slim Dogg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i don't like the idea of a long distance relationship, the only way you should be in a long distance relationship that would probably last is if you both agree to have an open relationship because you can not trust anybody these days.
2006-07-13 16:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to make sure you are old enough. If you are then. really get to know him. Research all you can about this guy. make sure if something was to come out of this relationship. That you will not get hurt. Then if everything is still on the up and up. Both of you are truly in love. then let love led you where it should go. Good luck
2006-07-13 16:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't even know each other ---- you have to some time together in real life --- meet each others family/friends --- learn about the real person - not the online persona... you just doing love chats online with a stranger ---- that's telling you what you want to hear --- I have been online for many years ---chatted lots with men --- my brother is a detective --- would you care to guess how many online guys were for real? Only 2 --- one's a family member and the other is my friend that lives in the USA --- we were neighbors for 20 years....before I moved out of the country.
2006-07-13 16:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all long distance relationships are hard by themselves. and throw in the online thing, which i am assuming you two haven't met, and it makes it that much harder. but i think if you two really love each other; i mean really love each other, not just infatuated or in love with the IDEA of each other, then love will overcome the distance. but it will take a whole lot of trust between the two of you. good luck!
2006-07-13 16:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's some advice you stupid and naive how can people be so stupid you cant fall in love on line that's just ignorant love is an expression and no matter how sweet his on line words were that kind of **** never works online. sorry to be rude but you seriously need to get a life meet person in real life bond have a real relationship not this fake online crap.
2006-07-13 16:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im just gonna say this from a guys point of view, We can talk a good game from a distance and send photos of anyone we want to you and have so actually believe it really is us, but untill you meet face to face and get to actually know who they really are other than the INTERNET GOD the make themselves out to be your no in love your in lust.
2006-07-13 16:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by ejholle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships RARELY work out, and I'm not trying to be nagative here. Especially when it involves online dating--How real can this person be?
2006-07-13 16:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋