i know someone who did that and i was just wondering why they would do this all i know was that this guy was in the military and he was only about 23,could it be that he wa lonily???
2006-07-13 16:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by JEN-JEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
One of my best friends got married to a guy in the Air Force...it wasn't under ideal circumstances. He was being shipped to Germany and couldn't afford to take her with him unless they were married. They basically had to make a decision in a short amount of time, whether to get married or break up.
It was a really hard decision but she was so in love with him that she didn't want to be left behind when he left the country. They ended up getting married pretty quickly. And they've gone through really rocky times because they weren't exactly ready to be married, but in the end I think they can work it out.
I think that most people would like to think that marriage is something we can always just do when it feels right but I think in some situations there are just really tough choices to make. I also know that people I've known who were in the military tend to get married at a much younger age than those who aren't in the military...but I'm not sure why that is.
2006-07-13 18:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is ridiculous. Just to get married over having a baby or just because she is pregnant.
You should ONLY get married if you both EQUALLY love each other.
I guess they do not want the child to be a bastard.
2006-07-13 23:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some people just want to get married not for love but for the security of knowing they have someone. Some people settle for fear that they';ll never find the right one.
2006-07-13 23:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't get married just because the girl is pregnant. Marriage is about SOOO much more then just having a child together.
2006-07-13 23:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes lonely and afraid of getting old and no one around, attachment dis-order, and socal pressure there are so many reason the need to become a man, hide his gayness, there are tons of reasons.
2006-07-13 23:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have been with a person for a long time and it seems like the logical progression of the relationship.
2006-07-14 02:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by asimplefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are scared that it might be the best they'll ever have.
2006-07-13 23:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MONEY
2006-07-14 01:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋