Everything was going perfect until one night I get a IM from him saying we need to talk and not on the internet on the phone and I was like okay. I kinda knew what was coming. Well if you havent already guessed it yes he broke up with me and this was right before our 11th month anniversary too, the funny thing is he didnt really have a reason as to why he was doing it and it was also very random and came out of know were because two nights before he came over and we got along really good and he didnt act like anything was wrong he even said to me a couple of times that night I love you so much so I thought everything was going perfect I never in a million years would have guessed that he was going to break up with me. I still really really like him. Every time I think about it, it makes me more and more upset please I just need some advice and encouragement on how to get over him.
2006-07-13 16:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by Lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think before you can get over him you need to figure out what was wrong with the relationship that he broke up with you. once youve done that you should have the closure and be able to realize that the relationship was a learning experiance and you should be able to move on and get into another relationship. if it ended it wasnt ment to be. find a new guy you can love
2006-07-13 16:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he give you a reason? That hurts more that he was just there a few days ago telling you that he loves you so much. You need to find out the reason..not that you will feel much better, but not knowing will bother you alot more. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what he did. Do you think there is another girl? You gotta keep busy, be around friends and do stuff so you aren't sitting at home thinking about him all the time. It's really hard, but eventually you will get over him if after you talk to him, you know it is REALLY over. Good luck!
2006-07-13 23:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by delfin716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things to occupy your time you may need to be around others to cope or you may be a person who needs to spend time thinking about what happened and re evaluate what is really going on with you and your life there are things more important then a guy who breaks up with ya.
2006-07-13 23:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by big bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, its okay we all been there..i know its so hard at first to be able to see that maybe he wasnt the one..but at least be happy you meet him and that there was a reason for him comming into your life. right now im in a similiar situation like you. im not sure what happend either and why my bf ended it but hey, im trying to think at it at the most positive way i can, if im not important enough to him and he can just end it like that then maybe it just wasnt meant to be. guys come and go and i hated when people would tell me that, but its really true im starting to see that now too...best you can do now is to try your hardest to keep yourself occupied and maybe he will let you know in time what went wrong and why he wanted it to end..good luck and stay strong!
2006-07-13 23:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by yourself involved in an activity that can help others --- try volunteering at the hospital or nursing home --- animal shelter etc. Being alone and brooding won't do the trick --- get out and about with family and friends - plans fun adventures.
2006-07-13 23:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um I think the best thing to do is to try to keep yourself busy. Put his pictures were you won't see them all the time. try going out and doing lots of fun stuff or call up your friends. I know is not that easy to forget him but try cuz i'm trying to do the same thing to but is not as easy as I thought and when I keep myself very bz, it helps.
2006-07-13 23:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him. move on with your life. you're bound to experience more in life and wallowing in a relationship that has nowhere to go will only let you pass all the things happening. think that it's not your loss, it's his cause he let you go.
2006-07-13 23:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by starshie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating other guys and evenually he will come back around and ask you back out.
2006-07-13 23:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Little Money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO A LOTTA THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE ALMOST EVERYDAY AND FIND A NEW FRIEND CAUSE THAT'S WAT I DID AND NOW I'M IN LUV WIT SOMEBODY ELSE GIRL. HOLLA BAC ATCHA GIRL!!
2006-07-13 23:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by courtney o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋