2006-07-13 16:05:45 · 29 answers · asked by sweatie069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it so hard for guys to figure women out?
2006-07-13 16:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are usually wired a little differently. We are not always as emotionally developed and quite often we are far less intuitive. In other words, we just don't "get" a lot of stuff. What is cut and dried to us is just the dust on the surface for the ladies. It's not that we are dumb, we can learn. But you have to realize there is a difference and be willing to admit you don't know everything. That's another thing the girls are better at, recognizing their own strengths and weaknesses. Women are a wonderful mystery. You won't ever completely understand any one woman. You will get close perhaps, but they reserve a little place that we poor guys just can't attain. The trick I think is to just do your best. Don't give up. You will be rewarded for your willingness to learn and your tenacity. Women are just amazing! Respect them and cherish them.
2006-07-13 23:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are guys so hard to figure out? Lol, girls give the biggest hints and guys never get them for some reason...the hardest thing is the simplest...to see what's really right in front of you
2006-07-13 23:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not hard to figure out at all, we are easy to figure out, we tell guys everything. Now guys on the other hand, OMG, trying to get anything out of them...is well.....like pulling a tooth!!
2006-07-13 23:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your trying to hard to figure them out.
2006-07-13 23:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha! i think boys are so hard to figure out!! i learned this recently, hope it helps you.
in general (not all, but just typically speaking), most men are very visual/physical. most women are very emotional/sensitive. a woman will need her man to be "sensitive", but most men are not used to that, and therein lies conflict. women tend to be better listeners, (like to talk, gossip, give advice, etc---men usually try to solve problems w/o any fuss) and so if a man wants to understand a woman better he has to WORK at listening better and watching for indicators that show what or why a woman is feeling a certain way. sounds complicated, but its' actually just taking the time out to really understand what or how to make a woman happy.
on the same token, women need to understand that men are not used to being great listeners/sensitive emotionally, and shouldn't get upset too easily or expect their man to know everything. i find that logically explaining step by step why or what upset me, and only then does my boyfriend understand!! to me it's quite obvious, but to him it never would have occured to him that what had happened would have made me upset. but when explained, he realizes his bad and apologizes. it's all about communicating, and we have to learn how our partner communicates and work together in order to close the gap.
2006-07-13 23:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women tend to say one thing while they mean another.
Every time we tell them what we are thinking they are trying to find the hidden meaning.
For instance: She says, do you love me?
Hidden Meaning: You would take out the trash if you love me.
You say: Of course I love you and you grab a beer?
She looks for hidden meaning and the trash is still in the waste can.
Next thing you are in a big fight because you don't love her after you just told her you did.
One way to clear up this augment is to say: Goddamn right I don't love you ***** now bring me another beer, she'll be looking for the hidden meaning in that one to and bring you a beer and give you some head too. Ha! Ha!
2006-07-13 23:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with you in saying that girls are so hard to figure out.I think this is because they think that they should be approached /requested if anybody wants to contact them.This makes them feel important.
2006-07-13 23:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing women are feeling driven humans for the most part... they are not hard to figure..... a guy says the shortest route is point a to point b a woman says i "feel scared in that part of town which is in the middle i will go from point a to c then to b ...... if you view everything in an emoitional sort of way then you have figured out alot of women... they need to "feel" secure , they need to "feel" loved the need to "feel" wanted and we as men need women to need us
2006-07-13 23:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell us why guys so hard to figure out and i get back to you
2006-07-13 23:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋