im 26 and I've had intercourse but, NEVER made love . Im afraid I dont know what it is . can someone tell me?

Question

I feel uncomfortable asking people in person to tell me.

Answer 1

making love is the feeling of a special bond and uniting of a couple. when you really love someone and they really love you back you will know exactly what it is. be patient that time will come.

Answer 2

Love is something I am, not something I receive or feel. When I've made love, I've felt comfortable about myself, and my lover. I've felt a warm bond, a desire for our connection, not just orgasm. Yes, when I'm making love, the orgasms are more real, last longer, and bring up more emotion.

When making love, I don't tend to be in a hurry. I tend to be flexible, generous, and sensitive. Making love is based on trust, so there's always been a lot more to the relationship outside of the bedroom.

If you've studied Chakras, you may want to explore these on your own before making love, that you find yourself connecting to your mate on several levels, not just physically.

When making love, I've found that my four lower bodies aren't in the way (I'm physically at ease, emotionally clear, and there are no intellectual or etheric (guilt or history) issues fighting for my attention.)

That's why things like candles, massages, time in the hot tub, etc. set the stage for making love. These things get life out of the way, so that there aren't things getting between you and your mate.

Good luck and enjoy!

Answer 3

Well I will honestly say that I am also 26 have had intercorse have been married a child and divorced, but had never made love till recently. All I can say right before it happened we could not stop staring into each others eyes and it seemed like the world stopped and spun like crazy at the same time my heart kept skipping beats and it seemed like I forgot how to breath. But that was me who knows you may experince it differently in time.

Answer 4

I'm sorry that you even asked this question.... I feel sad that you have never experienced it. Making love is quite different. The physical acts are quite similar but the "feeling" is different when you are with someone that your in love with. The best way that I have described it in the past is that instead of being afraid to express your venerability with someone, you share it with someone who trusts you with theirs. Its quite intimate.

I hope you experience it someday.

Answer 5

There's no emotion more intense than making love to a man you can't see yourself living without. When you experiance love, first hand, the making of it will come naturally and you'll know.

Don't rush yourself, you don't want to end up with someone you don't feel this ultimate connection with.

Answer 6

Intercourse is just physical.Making Love is a joining of souls.You'll experience it some day,don't worry.

Answer 7

you have intercourse but you never made love thats confusing sex and made love is the same and i hope you dont mind for asking do you enjoy it and do you have orgasm while having intercourse . i like to know can i contact you i am horrnnyyy !!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

I want a pair of boots made out of living sharks so that when people try to rob me I can kick them and the sharks will bite them in the knee.

Answer 9

Making love is more of an emotional connection than a physical one, hard to explain.

Answer 10

Well, first you have to be in-love with someone....

Then, when you have sex with that person, you will be making love.

The motions are basically the same, but the feelings you derive will be different when you're in love.

Answer 11

You need to love each other, in order to make love. And not just out hoe'in around.