I been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks pretty much every day and he is real nice and we have a lot in common and we are pretty affectionate with each other, and we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend would do (like holding hands and kiss in public), but there has been no mention of us being in a relationship....Is it too soon to ask what he wants or thinks about us being in a serious relationship?
**Sometimes when I ask him if he can tell a guy that he is my boyfriend he doesnt have a problem when I don't want a guy to talk to me**
Help me out, because I feel like such a kid, hahaha!
2006-07-13 15:45:55 · 19 answers · asked by ms_ladyesco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go with the flow, if things are going good, you don't wanna mess it up by pressuring him. just don't say anything and eventually he'll come around and bring it up when he's ready. in the meantime, don't see anyone else (ie. be exclusive) or he'll think you're not as interested. just be cool, don't rush anything or force anything, it will work itsself out.
2006-07-13 15:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by chrystallec 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would say it's a little early, but I tend to be slow to make an "official" commitment.
You might be due for a dtr (determining the relationship) talk though. When you ask, just ask how he would describe your relationship. Say you're unsure of how to describe it to your friends. That way there's not the "I don't want a guy to talk to me" getting in the way.
2006-07-13 22:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have been sleeping with him than u r already in relationship with him. If that's haven't happened yet, you better get a clue whether he plans to ask you anytime in the future. If you end up being clueless, just go and ask him. That's will release the fog from your mind.
2006-07-13 23:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by coconut tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to be in a serious relationship, why can't you just go with the flow. Women, always wanting more, more , more. Then when you get it, you don't want it. Stay off the poor guys a$$.
2006-07-13 22:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation, but i didn what I always do, just pulled the band-aid off real fast it gets it over. SO in other words just be up front, it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, so go for it. In the end you will feel better knowing.
2006-07-13 22:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by starrdurden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he wants to take it to the next level and be in a relationship
2006-07-13 22:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y'all sound so far along in a real relationship, therefore you should be in a relationship with this guy. Your judgment and conscious are usually the best guides.
2006-07-13 22:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three weeks is too soon to be in a serious relationship. Take it slow.
2006-07-13 22:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest taking baby steps. I would be like "hey, I really like you and I would like to tell my friends your my boyfriend if that's alright with you." Once he's your boyfriend for a couple months then go ahead and take it to the next level.
2006-07-13 22:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lisette F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, you should clear things with him bout your relationship. coz for me its not nice being touch or kissed by someone your not having a relationship with. try to ask him bout your true relationship, if he tell you that he's just making friends with you- beware, and if you feel the same thing, then its up to you to continue being friends but doing the girl or boy thing.....
2006-07-13 22:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by anghel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋