im 19 years old and im a virgin. i need some help what could be possibly wrong with me. ly things that i can think of is that im fat just super fat like jared fogel or anyth. i have a beer gut. or my face has a lot of cloged pores or im just shy. what do you ladies think it could be? i am taking measures to uncloge my poers but its to painfull and scrubs and rubs dont work very fast or well.
2006-07-13 15:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...#1 its not a terrible thing to be a virgin!! dont be so eager. if you want/need to lose weight then talk to your doc and take steps to lose some of that fat. just walking everyday and watching what you eat will help you lose weight. lay off the caffeine and beer and drink lots and lots of water. you should drink a glass of water as soon as you wake up in the morning. that will help your complexion and the more water you drink the more weight youll lose. and quit scrubbing your face!!! it only makes it worse! it spreads the oils and bacteria around not to mention aggrivate the skin. use a cleanser daily(try to get one with salicylic acid in it...oil of olay has one out). use just clean hands and warm water. then use a toner. do this every night and every morning. if you can afford to go to a dermatologist or have a facial then i would recommend that. remember you wont change over night. stick with it and give it some time. the girls will be all over you (if youre a nice guy) in no time!
2006-07-13 15:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
♥ first off theres nothing wrong with you just because you are a virgin... that is something to be proud of... I think your lacking in your confidence which is a big turn off for us women... if your bothered by how you look go exercising and go to a dermatologist... no matter what you do remember your a great person and your going to find a girl one day who knows that :D ♥
2006-07-13 15:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's your low self esteem, because when you describe yourself all you can do is talk about whatever is wrong with you. You need to change your attitude. How you feel about yourself is how you present yourself to the world. Self confidence has nothing to do with how you look, or if you have talent, or tell good jokes. It's merely an attitude.
2006-07-13 15:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, hit the gym and join some sort of group which would give you confidence. in the end it is more special when the right girl comes along and you'd fall in love. while improving yourself never hurts, stop focussing on getting some and enjoy life and other things it has to offer. the more you enjoy it, the more enjoyment will come your way : )
2006-07-13 15:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by annie22222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your skin that's really worrying you, buy some Proactive - it works, trust me. But, that's not the root of your problems. You just haven't found the right girl yet. You should just start working on your confidence and taking care of yourself and before you know it, you'll have lots of attention without even trying! :)
2006-07-13 15:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a very low self esteem....if u r super fat y not exercise? eat healthy fruits and veges. drinks lots and lots of water it might help to unclog some of ur pores.
2006-07-13 15:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by honeyonthesquarehigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stay a virgin as long as you can (good for you)
second see a dermatologist for the acne
third it's okay to be shy that is who you are.
Hopefully you can become the person you want to be just be happy and be yourself, it's what is inside a person not the outside
2006-07-13 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think being virgin is wrong than you are all wrong. Survey the people not only around you, around the world. You can identify your quality compared to them you think are better quality.
2006-07-13 16:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by coconut tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have confidence, you can have the world!
there is a girl out there who will love you regardless, so keep looking, have fun and don't worry about it.
Love will find you...oh wait, you were talking about sex....
that will find you also, as long as you are confident and having a good time with life....
so get your butt out there!
2006-07-13 15:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurity. Be confident women like confident men.
2006-07-13 15:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋