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im one of them. i want to drop out so badly. but i want. im just shy... i dont like all the stupid gossip and all teh stupid **** that goes on and i dont like talking to poeple becuase htey are so stupid. but!!! im learning to become more outgoing i think... atleast its going to be my goal next year. but i understand the people who cant overcome it... its tough to get out of your own personal nature. but i think its kind of dumb they **** up thiier whole futrure for it.

2006-07-13 15:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shelbzz 3 · 0 0

Guy i hope this is not what is happening to u.
All i feel about this person is nothing other than disappointment, pityness, n suffering for him or her.
Why do u let shyness come into ur mind n ban u from doing what's right? Is it bcux u don't have the attractive body they want, or u're not dressing the latest dress advertised on TV? or even u have acnes? i tell u none of these matters!

Is it bcux of not being accepted by peers or a particular group of ppl? guy, s.times it's good to be in a team, but pls don't focus on them too much, cux it only put pressure on u.
Being urself and independent will last longer and forever.

One last command to ppl who drop outta skul:
U still have a chance, think it over cux education is always the best investment for u n ur future.

2006-07-13 15:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Anytime something in your life goes far enough to cause you to stop normal activities or stop associating with people on a normal basis it is a problem and needs to be addressed by a therapist. This is true for anything, whether you are addicted to vidoe games to obsessing over washing your hands.

My Uncle's ex wife had a similar problem that, because she refused to admit it was a real problem, resulted in their divorce and her being unemployed for quite some time. Last I knew she had gotten help and was still more comfortable isolated, but had gotten a job and was regularly attending church.

Find someone you trust to help you get some sort of therapist you can build a good relationship with. As far as school, try an online program, most colleges have them these days. You can still get an education while working on this issue with someone. Good Luck!

2006-07-13 15:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0 0

Many factors contribute to people dropping out of school. Shyness is one...so is family problems, drugs, alcohol, poverty, gangs, etc. But the real question here is "what are we going to do about it?". If we know the question...let's find and implement a solution.

2006-07-13 15:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that people with this particular kind of issue should seek help. You need school these days to get a decent job. If it cant be overcome I'm sure there's a way to live with it without sacrificing a successful and progressive life.

2006-07-13 15:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by morena3449 1 · 0 0

Life is short and high school is even shorter although it doesn't seem like it. When you hear people say high school should be or is the best time of your life, don't believe them. It gets much better for most of us. The really popular kids and cheerleaders and such seem to be the ones who remember high school as their best time. That's because as they got older, no one cared about the crap kids worry about in high school. Stick with it. When you look back in 10 years you'll be glad you did. If you go to a reunion, you'll see that most have changed and you will have a lot more in common. Then you'll see they aren't important anymore and you'll probably never go to another reunion.

2006-07-13 15:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by wolfmusic 4 · 0 0

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2016-12-10 06:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by civil 3 · 0 0

They need to get help really, really quickly when they have thoughts like this. You may be able to drop out of school, but you can't drop out of life. You can't live with your parents forever. How are you going to take care of yourself if you don't finish school and get a job. Life means interacting with other people. Maybe you need to go to a church school. Bless you.

2006-07-13 15:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's bs. Shyness. You can't drop out till your 16. That mean many years of school. How can one be that shy?

They are probably a drug addict. Honestly.

Their parents are f-ing dumbsh*ts for letting them drop out.

2006-07-13 15:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by infernomanor 3 · 0 0

your not going to get a answer that you like but to return to school and stay in there till the end!

if you drop out now These words will haunt you the rest of your life.

2006-07-13 15:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0 0

Dropping out of school is never the solution. You can't run away from your problem, it must be conquered. And people should never give up on important things, like school.

2006-07-13 15:34:42 · answer #11 · answered by Farly the Seer 5 · 0 0

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