I get tired of hearing bad things about her. I would like to be a wife someday. Men make it seem like she is the worst of all. Guys keep thinking a woman has to be out partying everynight. I'd like to meet a man and get to know him. I dont want to hear about his wife and how he is not getting any.
2006-07-13 15:27:51 · 40 answers · asked by cottoncandysky40 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guarantee you won't be hearing that from my man!
Nor from many others.
You are coming across the ones that are hoping you will have an affair with them.
2006-07-13 15:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. 50% of marriages fail. 25% of married men admit to having cheated on their wife. Its really a ton of bullshit.
I think a man CAN just be happy with his wife if he'll grow some balls and communicate to her if he's not happy before he goes b*tches to everyone and their mom, or cheats on her. If she's not putting out, than tell her "honey, my sexual needs aren't being met" or something, sh*t. I agree. I'd like to be a wife someday too but lately all I hear are bad statistics and its giving me a bad feeling about this whole "till death" thing.
2006-07-13 15:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, When your life or Wife becomes boring say after 5 years of marriage and you are not very creative or say you don't know how to enjoy life...most of the men start lookin for some galz it does not matter whether the gal they are dating now is pretty or not, it just give them a thrill....u know a sort of adventure...as they r doing something wrong...they are hiding something, they again start feeling young....i mean they think they r still in college...so if they are getting so many things...just by ignoring their wife....they should do
Now why Wife becomes boring after say 5 years...when u are in any relationship ...u take it granted...i mean wife stops caring about looks/figure...their way of dressing...only talk about kids/school....in-laws...and men start loosing interest in her...
These all are my assumptions as i m not married....but have seen so many men...having extra marital affairs...though they have lovely wife....but again not all men are same...
2006-07-13 15:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Best Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well CottenCandy:
You have a most interesting name!, and obviously like to enjoy life and are looking, but, well, not in the right places.
Every relationship is different, and if you are with married guys, well, expect the worst. They are looking, because quite often they are not happy with themselves perhaps? This is a very complex question, with no one set answer. Some women get really feeling hemmed in when married, and some guys become really strange and well, boring in marriage, and the list goes on and on and on for as many people that are married out there!
We are responsible for our own actions in life, not someone elses! If you don't like the talk, well you are single(?), so turn, turn, turn and enjoy your life without the married people!
That is their problem, not yours ever. Don't make it yours ever!
Simple as that. Choose well, because your choice could become endless.
luv
Ava
2006-07-13 15:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to like conquests. Once that conqest is over, they tend to get bored. Chances are, he's doing something to make his wife feel unsexy or unloved. It's a two way street, not just the wifes fault.
If you don't want to hear the old "My wife won't put out" bit, tell them you refuse to talk about that.
2006-07-13 15:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men like this guy is very selfish and disrespectful. if he does not care for his wife then why in the he ll did he ask her to marry him in the 1st place. most men are just jerks and are whores themselves so they have no room to talk about us women being whores. its both ways that way and in a relationship of any type. if i was this woman i would leave his him. its not worth getting hurt over if you ask me. i have been hurt many times and afraid to fall in love or get back in another relationship.
2006-07-13 15:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct, my dear. Its all instinct. We're like dogs. In fact, if our brains were any smaller, we'd probably be humping your legs at parties. Whats happening here is that the guy is trying to get your sympathy, because on some level (be it subconscious or very aware), he wants to sleep with you. Because thats the way men are. It is against our instinct to be happy with one woman. I know, pathetic, right? Easy solution? Stop talking to married guys; they are the horniest of us all, because most of them really AREN'T getting any, because they have the attitude I explained above. Have a nice day.
2006-07-13 15:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by davidw5748 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hear about his wife, then date men that don't have wives--then you can think about the poor choices you've made and fix them. Why would you date a married man anyway? Statistically, they rarely leave their wives. Does that help?
2006-07-13 15:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he gets bored with his wife. Which is why im never getting married. It's like eating the SAME THING every single day for the rest of your life, it would get boring as well.
2006-07-13 15:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by silverblack12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not respect their wife or they got married for the wrong reason and also-they do not respect themselves. If they are sitting around talking bad about their spouse, then that is putting them (the guy) down as well. He is showing that he looks pathetic and whines and does nothing about it. Poor little fellow..boo hoo..hoo
2006-07-13 17:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋