How do you know when a boy is cheating on you.Do they start acting different towards u?My boyfriend used to call me almost everyday.Now he only calls when he want to.Everytime i do talk to him on the phone i will be calling his name but for some reason he seems to ignore me.I hang up and he calls back and sayz he is sorry.things he used to say to me i believed but now when he tells me something i dont believe him.IS HE CHEATING ON ME OR HE JUST WANTS SPACE?
2006-07-13 15:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My gut hunch says something's up.
If he won't talk to you when you call, then I'd stop calling him. Don't call him for a week, no matter how hard it is. Chances are, within a week to two weeks time, he'll be calling you asking why you don't call any more.
If you ignore him like he's ignoring you, chances are it will bug the heck outta him.
It could be he's cheating or it could be space. I couldn't say for sure. But staying away from him, no contact at all, will surely make him think twice. Guys can't stand it when they are not the center of attention, when they were before. It's called "What's good for the goose, is good for the gander". Don't let him play you.
2006-07-13 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Voice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...
Let's start here: Things will change. In the beginning, things seem wonderful because it's new. New girl, new relationship, new possibilites. After a while (and getting to know each other better) things may not be as exciting. It's natural, it's human, it happens.
Yes, some (many) people do proceed to "cheating" after this takes place. The important thing to know is how YOU feel about everything. If his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable for whatever reason, pull back. Slow down. Call it quits.
What's the point of being involved with someone that doesn't show you that they care about you?
Life is short. Have fun. (And maybe find ya 'self someone that really cares about you, ok?)
2006-07-13 15:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy, i'd likely say adult males. purely because they have an inclination to have better extreme sexual needs and urges than females do and if a modern gf cant fulfill those pick and urges than adult males will in many circumstances cheat as a answer
2016-12-01 06:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a change in behavior means something is different now.
Try to figure out what it is, by asking him questions, he might not be cheating on you for sure, but he appears to be preoccupied with something else. Be smart about it, find out before you assume too much. I know it is very hard to do, but try.
2006-07-13 15:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be cheating. A complete personality change is a major sign of someone cheating.
2006-07-13 15:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is not ready for you. Stop calling him and see if he calls and do not always be available for him. Then see how he reacts. Also you could spy on him or have someone do that for you. You just never know for sure, but that is one sign that he is letting go maybe or headed elsewhere.
2006-07-13 15:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him.. open up to him and tell him this is bugging you, and find out what is really going on.
Or you could just wait it out, people who cheat usualy start to feel guilty about it and then tell their other about it.
2006-07-13 15:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I've heard that 'we' (males) usually become more affectionate towards you when 'we're' cheating on our significant others. I'd imagine that it's to dispel any suspicions that they may have.
2006-07-13 15:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him and if he doesn't answer then he is. But usually you can just tell because he starts acting funny.
2006-07-13 15:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by robinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only so much to talk about. very tired of talking the same
old stuff. you both need to go somewhere together.
2006-07-13 15:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋