To paint you a picture. I am 20 and live with my boyfriend in am amertment in York UK. He is also 20, an amzing person who I really love. He is in partnership with his father and they own several businesses. We have plently of money, we each drive brand new land rovers and have a great life. We both have tons of familt and friends always around us and I thought we were really happy.
Lately he has become really moody and even shouts, i've never heard him do that before. I always ask him what's wrong but he tells me it's nothing. Both of his parents don't know what it is, it isnt business as it's thriving. I am really worried. He seems so depressed and talks to me very little now. I really dont know what to do.
2006-07-13 15:18:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
he met someone else and doesnt no how or if he's exactly ready to get rid of you.
thats what always happens to me
2006-07-13 15:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally can not see how you or him could possibly be happy in this situation. Money and material things do not buy happiness. I would love to know what you do all day. Do you just mooch off of him? Maybe he is tired of it, maybe he thinks all he has in his life is work and is finally realizing that he wants more in life than a shack up girlfriend. (20 years of age is pretty young to realize this, but maybe he is more mature than most people).
2006-07-13 23:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't listen to the people who jump to the worst and assume he's having an affair. He could be having an early "quarter-life crisis," wondering if where he is in life is where he wants to be. There might be something medical going on too. Perhaps if both you and his parents talked with him and told him that you noticed these changes and are concerned about him, he might be inclined to seek professional help. I would start with a run-of-the-mill physician and go from there.
2006-07-13 22:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the fire got too hot and he wants out of the kitchen...sounds like he's moody because there's someone else. Also sounds like he's too young for it to be a medical condition (diabetes, etc.) Let it go honey. There are too many fish in the sea to get tangled up with one, especially one with "issues".
2006-07-13 22:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know girl, but research it as much as you can. I just found out that boyfriend is still married and has 2 kids! Guys can be sneaky jerks, I hope not for your sake, but if you have a bad feeling, double check it out because we get these bad feelings for a reason, Good Luck!
2006-07-13 22:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are worried about him and that you want to do the best that you can to help and if he is still *moody* then just give him a little space....and maybe he will calm down.
2006-07-13 23:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by regina03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either hes stressed from work or hes cheating on you (most likely)...trust me i was him as a young man. dont confront him about it if ur smart. the best thing to do is to spy on him to make sure, then if not great life isnt so bad, but if so get a plan together to get what is urs secured before you confront and/or dump him.
2006-07-13 22:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everything is so perfect, he wouldn't be acting strange, and you wouldn't be worrying yourself silly. give him some space for a few weeks, and don't ask him everyday or every few hours what is bothering him. THEN this will tell you a lot in itself. you can casually gauge HIS reactions to your response. if he is still acting weird, i agree with the canadian girl. something for sure is up if he isn't reacting to this.
2006-07-13 22:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by sharpsilver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that kind of thing happens in life, especially when you are young. It has nothing at all to do with money.
Since you are worried about him, have you tried talking to a pastor (if you go to church) or to his doctor? Or have his parents talk to his doctor.
2006-07-13 22:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, he might have strong mood swings (or even bi-polar). If he cant control his emotion, he needs help and you need to decide whether this is the future you want for yourself.
2006-07-13 22:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince him to go to a doctor with you. He seems depressed. Depression obviously doesn't have a specific reason behind it.
2006-07-13 22:22:42 · answer #11 · answered by Larry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋