Okay i dont get this,
Guy sees hot girl
wants girl because she is hot
asks girl out because she is hot
Hot girl turns guy down
guy gets mad and depressed.
I mean dont they get it? Besides most
hot girls want a "HOT" guy. I mean i think
it sorta serves them right for being so
shallow and superficial.
What do you think?
2006-07-13 15:17:45 · 19 answers · asked by roman_surf_goddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a better question, that I hope you can answer....
Why is your Avatar a pic of a girl? Because your question implies that you are a guy......Now correct me if I'm wrong....but this could be the question that answers your question.
Ok, just read your question again....a couple of times....it is a wee bit confusing. But I take back my smart a$$ comment completely! Sorry. You are definatley a girl. But...on the other hand....I think that the girls are being shallow and superficial as well. So I guess they are made for eachother. I personally don't go for guys that are hot. Yes looks matter. But a good sense of humour is the best. If the guy can make me laugh my head off....welll...we've got a winner!
2006-07-13 15:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by sammytoes 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
umm ok first off... not that I am hot but .... duh you can't just come up to some girl looking like someone who sleeps on the side of the road, you have to have some prescences about you. I mean t shirt is jeans is all good if you smell nice... it's not a matter of looking HOT half the time it is a matter of just looking like your not some CRAZY guy from the street. Plus I promise that half the guys I know and date are not all that hot... but the are awesome on the inside... thats what makes em the better pick. HOT woman don't get that HOT guys are typically the player type and got a woman everywhere ... the good looking guys treat the girl way betta
2006-07-13 15:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying it serves the guy right, or the hot girl?
I'm thinking it's the hot girl's fault -- if she didn't want male atention, why was she dressing hot? Once she got what she was clearly trying to attract, why did she turn it down?
I'm guessing that you're a girl that doesn't dress hot, and that you're wishing you got some of that male attention. Well, if you want it, why aren't you dressing in a way that makes that clear? Then you could be deciding whether you wnated guys or not, too?
2006-07-13 15:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me assure you, I'm just an average looking guy, but I get hot women all the time. It's easy.
Most really good looking women are insecure and have low self-esteem. A couple of back-handed compliments with an LA 9 or 10, and they are all over your junk.
Guys, if you really want to start scoring, get to Leykis 101.
2006-07-13 20:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. i think i understand where your coming from... people don't actually talk about this much, and even i have a problem with it sometimes. (because when you look good everything is suppose to be perfect for you) when you look good it can cause you problems, but it's considered vanity to talk about it. no one wants to be vain so... you suffer in silence. i want to look good when i want to attract people, but i don't want them to want me only for that. it has to change at some point and the person must be able to see past the outside at some point. certain people are so obvious when you first meet them and you can tell immediately that they would never value you if you suddenly lost your looks. so, you don't waste the time... then they assume that you were the one who thinks she looks to good for them, when it was they who insulted you by only valuing your looks. am i right? as for the hot girl only wanting a "hot guy"..... not me. that would make me no better than the man who only sees the outside.
2006-07-13 15:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, and eventually the hot girls looks fade away and all thats left is ugliness on the outside and the same ugliness on the indside.
if a hot girl turns me down because she has this mentality that she deserves a hot guy then she is screwed up in the head and i count my blessing and thank my lucky stars i didn't get stuck with such an ugly person
2006-07-13 15:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give the guy credit for trying. I never asked a girl out that I thought was super hot. I feared rejection so I avoided the chance completely.
2006-07-13 15:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if a guy just wants a girl because of her looks that is shallow and superficial but hot girls that only want hot guys is just as shallow and superficial. both parties should look beyond appearances.
2006-07-13 15:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give him a lot of credit for trying. It's immensely scary to even approach someone really beautiful, never mind actually ask them out.
As for why... It's pretty obvious. The person't beautiful. We're all attracted to beauty. That's just natural. It's not easy to fight nature, especially when it comes to so basic an urge as courtship/potential mating.
I can't blame a guy (or girl) for trying to date someone who it hotter than them.
2006-07-13 15:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by dpfw16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often wonder why so many men who are what I would consider average or below will snub off ANYBODY let alone an acceptable female because she does not look like what they see on TV or movies.
Oh well, men are physical creatures and I guess an attitude like that is why we know that men definitely mature allot slower then us.
2006-07-13 15:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋