2006-07-13 15:15:05 · 61 answers · asked by brittany h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would definitely suggest you wait to have kids. You've got PLENTY of time ahead of you. You should wait until you've finished school, have a job, and are secure (financially, emotionally, etc.)
Bringing kids into this world because of pressure is never a good idea.
If your boyfriend won't wait, I think you're better off without him.
2006-07-13 15:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by dpfw16 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 15... Way too young. It is a lot of hard work to have a baby. First lets start with the pregnancy, a lot of women get morning sickness and that is not fun at all, it can get very intense and sometimes be sick for months. Then comes the contractions...oh girl.. those are uncontrollable until the baby comes out.. and that could take anywhere from minutes to days. If you get cramps... just imagine the pain as a zillion times stronger.. and you can't even breath from the pain....it lasts about a minute and right when you are going to rest.. the next one comes right after. After the baby is born you have to think about waking up in the middle of the night every two to three hours, changing diapers left and right, dealing with throw up, fixing and cleaning bottles all day long. Oh! don't forget ... you need money to buy clothes, formula, diapers... how u gonna do that at 15? And if you were to get a job at this age...you won't even make enough to buy diapers for the week. Now... do you really want to deal with all that at such an early age? You have to enjoy your teenage years now... get your education, go out, have fun, then later on in life have a baby... with the person you truly love. Take care of yourself - protect yourself. If your boyfriend is pressuring you - and if you decide not to have a baby and he can't accept that - let him go. Basically that is telling you that he doesn't respect you. There are a lot of guys out there that will respect your decisions. Also remember that only cuz you have a baby together doesn't mean he will be there to help you out, he can walk out on you while you are pregnant...then what you gonna do? Guys can tell you anything to get you into bed - specially at this age.
2006-07-15 19:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your boyfriend?
He needs to realize that you are still a child yourself. You may have some adult tendencies, but not for having children at such a young age. What about your life and all the things youwill miss by having a child at this age. Remember it is a 24/7 job and there is no holidays, no days off.
If I were you I would tell him NO! if he can not handle that then maybe he needs to move on. I would wait until you are old enough to be actually able to enjoy the miracle of having kids, when you yourself are old enough to spend the quality time with them.
2006-07-13 15:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aydra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!?!?!?!?! first of all if he wants kids he can o somewhere else.. you are only 15 i will 15 very soon and i cant even imagine having a kid!!i am babysitting a 6 month old all summer and you do not want that responsibility!! trust me!! and if something happened to your relationship wit him .. he doesnt want to pay child support!! before kids you need to be married and have a firm relationship with one another.. just remember.. a kid is forever a boyfriend is not
2006-07-13 15:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Alayna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell he to to bild u a house and get a job making alot of money so you dont need to work and buy you a 6 carrett ring pay for a 500 person wedding and then you can talk about having kids are hard work have fun being 15
2006-07-13 15:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, great. But he'll have to wait at least 6 years. Don't let him pressure you into having kids now. There is plenty of time to have kids later. Right now, you should be having fun and worrying only about you.
2006-07-13 15:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Susan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't have kids at 15. Most guys want kids for bragging right, they do not help support them. Then your next boyfriend will leave you too, because he does not to support another guy's kid.
2006-07-13 15:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is seriously some serious $hit because WTF im 15 years old too and i also want to have kids but not right now.. heck dont give in to him. You have your whole life ahead of you and you still need to live more. I kno im only 15 but believe me once you get older it will get better. I have a girlfriend and we talked about kids but not having them now F'n no just till were in our 20's or higher.
Sorry to say this but he just wants sex, thats all to it.
2006-07-13 15:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by jms_nov28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. Enjoy life, have some fun, finish school. I had my son when I was 23 and I love him with all my heart and couldn't imagine my life without him now but part of me wasn't quite ready yet for the responsiblity and it was a big kick into gear at the time.
2006-07-13 15:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your 18 and have a good job to support them. I'm tired of my taxes going up to feed other peoples children. I have enough trouble feeding my own. He may be insecure and trying to get you to have kids because he doesn't want you to get away. You have the rest of your life to have kids, your supposed to be having fun and partying at15. Not sitting at home changing s**tty diapers and having babies throw up on you. Save that for later.
2006-07-13 15:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by pieceomind4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋