And i am serious here.Is it going overboard for lack of a better word.That your man brings you flowers or any type of gift when he arrives at your place.Say he does this once a week...Or even twice a month on the outside...
And no i am not some desperate guy by an means,when it comes to the Ladies...
I am just curious as to if there might be some kind of limit type boundry for gifting said Lady...
2006-07-13 15:12:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dear, it's not going overboard. It shows that you actually care and are a romantic at heart. Most guys forget about romance after the conquest is over and they've got the women in bed. Also, guys tend to forget about romance after they've been dating a while.
A woman likes to know she's not forgotten. She likes to know she's appreciated. Heck, it doesn't always have to be a flower or a gift, a simple card in the mail, or left on her pillow where she can see it after you leave, is romantic.
I don't know about other women, but I enjoy knowing that a guy really wants to be around me. One guy I dated hung around his male friends more than he did me. After four years, that got old quick. I got tired of his friends escourting us along on our dates. We only got to see each other on the weekends.
2006-07-13 15:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good things to this and bad things. My ex used to bring me flowers almost every time we saw each other. I thought it was very sweet and romantic, however if there was ever a time he didn't bring me them, I immediately thought something was wrong. Therefore, the girl starts expecting these things from you all the time. So that is one factor to consider. Another thing is that I got really tired of seeing flowers, although I loved flowers it just kind of got old, and I didn't appreciate them as much, which lead to HIM thinking something was wrong with me. IF I were you I'd only bring them when your going out. A special day. And I would mix it up and get her things she didn't expect every once in awhile!
Good luck!!!
2006-07-13 15:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be a little much. I like gifts, don't get me wrong, but I prefer to have less tangible gifts. If the guy is using flowers to get out of spending time talking or bringing candy to make up for not wanting to do favors in bed, then I wouldn't like it. I prefer to have those things and get gifts less often.
2006-07-13 15:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would appreciate the flowers and think highley of the man who brought them. I would tell him he didn't have to but I would enjoy them and the company that came with, even a card sometime or a note would be nice, none of the men I know do that and I think it is a great way to meet someone, at the door with some flowers, especially when I get dressed up and make dinner.
2006-07-13 15:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are some times when too much is too much (try to figure women out), BUT there is a simple fix...
replace one or two "gifts" with simple compliments on her or how happy you are with the relationship you and she share.
Women are insecure creatures by nature ans always need words of encouragement & its free!
Flowers die whereas a simple compliment will stick in her mind a long while.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 15:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really sweet and thoughtful for a man to bring small gifts to the lady. Very well done!
2006-07-13 15:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think spur of the moment flowers and gifts are nice but I would not expect something everytime we got together. That just seems a bit ridiculous to me.
2006-07-13 15:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line here. If you do it ALL the time then it becomes routine/expected, and less appreciated. It loses its meaning. However, what woman doesn't like to receive gifts from time to time?
Just keep in mind that the things that are free, and freely given, are often the things that are held closest to the heart.
2006-07-13 15:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's ur motive for doing this? or a re u just being ur naturally thoughtful and sweet self? if you are, then i'd say a lady would never tire of receiving gifts. but u could up the ante you know? try diamonds, pearls, clothes etc...lol
2006-07-13 15:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ I dont think its overboard to do it a couple of times a month or even once a month.... but any more then that is to much... it would take the fun out of the surprise and it wouldnt mean anything anymore. :D ♥
2006-07-13 15:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋