2006-07-13 14:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I care but feel this was none of my business anyway. It wasn't like he was cheating or anything. Maybe I don't need to know everything about his life. He didn't tell me his sons have been moved out of his house now for over two years.
2006-07-13 15:24:17 · update #1
I just found out about a secret my boyfriend kept from me for 5 years and the relationship did not survive. Deception is a difficult thing to overcome. When you know someone is secretive, it is almost impossible to trust them. But also, the fact that they kept it a secret shows that they don't trust you. Usually it indicates that they don't trust themselves and so they lie to protect the secret that they fear will expose the truth about themselves.
2006-07-13 15:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by spirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, this "secret" is a small one.
Get used to this, if you just "roll over" You are "training" your partner right now-are you cool with someone who lies?
This will get REALLY old as the "secrets" get bigger and bigger...
2006-07-13 15:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you felt that..already but didnt really come forward with it. so you were ready for it, to happen. and it all depends what kind of secret it was.. i mean we all have little secrets.., It just all depends.
2006-07-13 15:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the secret is. We need details.
2006-07-13 15:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the secret is.
2006-07-13 15:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you do care,or you would not ask why.
2006-07-13 15:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋