I don't know. I'm really beautiful, smart, funny and all. But it seems like the guys who are "normal" don't cross my path or something cause I'm not going out much and have never been in a serious relationship. Do you think it might be because I have a strange accent and no one can recognize or what? I have no idea. There must be something wrong with me
2006-07-13 14:50:53 · 19 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a guy, yes I can say that we are intimidated by beautiful women. However, its may not be what you think. Many nice guys are intimidated because your viewed as unreachable. Most guys are so afraid of rejection that they talk themselves out of asking in the first place. They would love to go out with you and I am sure that once they did, they would find you to be a wonderful person, regardless of an accent. In fact many guys view an accent as an attractive thing, not a negative one.
Maybe try approaching that guy you have pegged as "normal" and talking with him first. There is nothing wrong with initiating conversation and by showing interest, it may ease any fears he has later about asking you out.
Good Luck! PM if you have questions.
2006-07-13 14:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did too, I didn't get involved( have a boyfriend) or get my first kiss until my senior year of high school. I have plenty of guys that were friends, but none close enough to consider boyfriend material. I worked alot during my last year of highschool and I'm not what you call social either, but the feeling that there must be something wrong with me came and it bothered me. Having an accent makes you more alluring. I met my guy, my very first boyfriend, we actually just hit our 2 year anniversary a little over 2 weeks ago.We met at our first job.I am his first girlfriend too. So he too was scared about taking what we had and turning it into something more, we were already gossiped about at work, people wondering were we, weren't we.There is nothing wrong with you, now, even though I had to wait to get a boyfriend, I've learned to cherish our relationship- we started as good friends and then evolved- i even asked him to prom! Just be yourself and see what life brings you- who knows, fate could be saving you from a bunch of guys who aren't worthy of you.
2006-07-13 22:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by kmrelo04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is me alright. Thank you for being that open, now I know I am not alone.
There is nothing wrong with you. Your strange accent make you noticeable, stand out from the rest. Maybe you are trying too hard. Relax a little bit, keep trying, hang out in new places, so you can meet new people (choose those places wisely, what kind of guys do you want to attract?)
Take on new projects, things you always wanted to do, learn or try, maybe there you will find what you seek.
2006-07-13 21:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 and I think I'm an average looking guy. Normal girls don't cross my path. I don't date and have never had a serious relationship. So there's nothing wrong with you, cause you're just like me.
2006-07-13 21:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by nbinthahouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but saying you are beautiful is a little conceited and hence, really a turn off. You may be a total hot babe, but letting everybody know it, is a HUGE turnoff to "normal people". Try a little humility, and see if it works. But only if it's sincere, b/c "normal' pple can usually see through fakery. Good luck.
2006-07-13 21:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are nervous around beautful women i know i am.i don't think i would have a chance because she is beautiful,and can't get the nerve up to intrduce myself.a lot of people tell me that i am a handsome man but i don't see it so i reckon my confidence is kinda low.but you ask a question that sound normal don't worry the right guy will come your way probally when you least expect it.thats what people keep telling me anyway still waiting on the right woman.good luck
2006-07-13 22:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something wrong with them. Beautiful, smart women intimidate the heck out of guys. But eventually one will be outgoing enough to love you for you. Just don't give up in the meantime.
2006-07-13 21:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should like you for you .. and for no other reason id watch it because alot of times it can get a guys interest that you have an accent. dont change what you do...just so guys would like you.., theres other people out there that will like you for only being you and not putting on a false front just so someone likes you.
2006-07-13 21:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. The right guy will come around eventually, and you will be waiting instead of being stuck in a relationship that will never last.
2006-07-13 21:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by seagull_watcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. everyone feels like something is wrong with them at some point. i have honestly had boys say im really really pretty and sweet and all this junk, but ive never had a boyfriend or anything. i always thought something was really wrong with me. but it turns out, boys were to shy to talk to me. seriously, i know that sounds like i have a huge ego or something, but its the truth. but there is nothing in the world wrong with you. just be urself and wait for the lucky guy!
2006-07-13 21:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by kandee-kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋