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Question

me, my homeboy, and his girl where all friends for about a year but resently they just has a nasty break up, and now she is seeing someone else, but secretly I liked her but never said anything out of respect for my homie, she resently emailed me and said that she liked me long before she was seeing my homie. but I dont understand why is she telling me this now when she has a boyfriend and why did she date my homeboy for a year and a half if she liked me. what do you think about the situation?

Answer 1

She's trying to get back at your boy, leave her alone!

Answer 2

You know she might have liked you first but your homie is the one who gave her the attention and not you. She might have thought you were interested. Either way think about it this way, are there any more of you friends that she might like as well. You never more maybe she is being honest and you two could hook up, but make sure that your friend is okay. Guys are more likely to let go of a chick than a girl with a guy. Girls are more emotional and to guys, it don't matter.

Answer 3

Does she not have the slightest idea that you have a thing for her? Probably she didn't think you would like her thus she secretly liked you before she was with your homie. Who knows she was with your homie to get close to you? I do not know her personality, so it is hard to say what's going on. i tell you what, ask her. :)

Answer 4

You know the rules, once a woman is with one of your homies, then she's dead to you. You had your chance and your homie slipped in. Just because they broke up doesn't mean that it's alright to pursue her. I suspect that you already know what you should(n't) do. Ladies, pardon the slang but bros before hos.

Answer 5

I think out of respect for your homie you end up not getting with this girl, ever. Just chalk it up to bad timing. Who knows, maybe in the next life. There are plenty of other girls out there anyway.

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Answer 7

Well, it seems like she is good manipulator. She seems to sense things and goes for it. If she is trying to hook up with someone while she is still dating someone else, she isn't worth having. Cheaters make the worse people to date. She just seems like she is trying to get as much as she can. She has definitely got some commitment problems. You can do better.

Answer 8

First of all, I would confront her and ask why she waited this long to tell you how she felt. Ask her how serious this relationshipship she is in know is. lf she still has feelings for you, go from from there. And if you and her might possibly hook up, you definitely need to tell your "homie" what is taking place.

Answer 9

there are certain rules, and when your friend breaks up with somone, you did too. If it is one of those insatiable "im in love" sort of things, I would talk to your friend first and see where he stands on it. If it is just a simple attraction because she was taken, I would let it go and pass on the sloppy seconds.

Answer 10

I think if you value your friendship with your homie you tell her to step off and you find another girl

Answer 11

I think she's being a whore. You need to ignore her and forget about her. If she's talking to you while she has a boyfriend, what will she do when you go out with her? God knows how many other guys are in her life.