im 13 and i love this boy at school. he only knows i like him. he said that we are good friends. and hes going out with this girl i hate. ( he doesnt know i hate her). i am totally heartbroken. first time. im really depressed and cannot stand the sight of them together. it hurts!!! help me anyone. please give me advice on controlling these emotions. now i feel i love him and hate him at the same time. im very sad right now. please help me. serious answers please.
2006-07-13 14:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is all part of growing up. Just concentrate on stuff you like, such as hanging with your girlfriends. Dont embarrass yourself with declarations of love to this guy, especially if he has a g/f already. In years time, when you are an adult and discovered (hopefully), real love which is returned to you, you will look back on this present infatuation, and think "why such a big deal?!"
2006-07-13 14:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called growing up.
This is the learning how to control your emotions lesson. Generally these emotions are battled with the "get over it" attitude. Once you learn to master your emotions with your "get over it" armor you will be able to deal with adversity in an adult mature way. Go read the divorce section and see what the big leagues looks like then look at your question, better prepare yourself now the real fun is yet to come.
The good news is those people that prepare themselves for adversity are the ones that can handle it and go on to lead happy successful lives. Take your time you still have plenty of it.
2006-07-13 14:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 00:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a crush 5-10 years from now you'll look back and either say what was I thinking or that wasn't really love....but my advice for you is just write down your feelings if you need to and let it pass. It will pass soon!!!
2006-07-13 15:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture him naked in front of the whole school and being totally embarrassed!! In the meantime, look around and I bet you'll find an even finer young man just waiting to catch your eye!!
2006-07-13 14:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think that it's his loss and not yours. there are still a lot of guys out there that maybe be secretly liking you. just keep your head up and keep smiling. he may not be the one you for but there is one out there for you.
2006-07-13 14:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by starshie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. what do you know of love at your age. you just really really like him.
2006-07-13 14:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her ***
2006-07-13 14:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋