When people say "go out", do they just mean bars and clubs?and what's your definition of "goin out"?
A female friend (good-looking, succesful) of mine told me, that girls (quality girls) pretty much go to bars and clubs to enjoy themselves with her girl or guy friends , not to get picked up by random guys & that u can never find a guy/girl there worth ur time in a bar or a club. True?
So my question is, why do girls go to bars/clubs, if it's just to talk with friends, wouldn't it be better in a coffee shop or a nice restaurant?
and y do guys go there?
It just seem very stupid to me, girls go there NOT to get picked up, guys go there TO pick up, it's like a losing battle? hehe
I'm 21, still young, but it seems ppl. around my age all likes to go to clubs/bars, but I would much rather know girls from a tennis club or classes, and take her out on a nice dinner and get to know her, than girls from bars/clubs, because they don't seem to be worth my time.
:)
2006-07-13 13:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love going to clubs to go out dancing not really bars cause I don't drink much but I go there to have and meet people I met my boyfriend through a friend and we started knowing each other outside the club seen I guess girls know that guys go there for one night stands and girls just don't want that (well some) and go there for fun only
2006-07-13 13:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
unless you like to drink with your buddies - clubs - bars aren't the most ideal place to meet decent women... you get so many people saying that they're tired of the bar and club scene, obviously its like going on a fishing trip and only coming back with a hangover and sunburn.
PS, You may want to keep your questions a whole lot shorter in length... you lost me after the first paragraph. Summarize summarize summarize
2006-07-13 13:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is absolutely right. My girlfriends and I love going to clubs and bars. Just for the fun of it. Its the atmosphere...you can't get loud and crazy at a coffee shop or restaurant. But you can at a bar and a club. You can't dance at a coffee shop or restaurant (well, some you can)....but you can at a bar and a club.
Sorry you are so boring. Good luck finding someone just as boring as you.
2006-07-13 13:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by shakia27 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
well most girls that hang out in bars are just looking to get laid. i go out with a group of guys usually to bars and its fun. sometimes with some girls but mostly with my boyfriend and his friends. we just go out and have a good time.
2006-07-13 13:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kassie C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont matter
2006-07-13 13:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by mixedbreed76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋