Its a year plus relationship with a pending marriage in the planning stage, and girls call to talk to my man who they think is a single man who he has filled with lies about who I am incase I answer and gets upset when I confront him on it... what would you do?
2006-07-13 13:26:46 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I generally advise simply ignoring "online fantasy flirting" but this goes beyond idiocy. This guy wins the prize for bein a dumbass for his fiance. I would simply tell him, shape up or ship the hell out. And if he keeps this kind of thing up, dump him. He will be nothing but trouble for the rest of your life.
2006-07-13 13:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By doing that he is telling you that he is going to see and talk to other women.I'll bet that they still call even after you tell them who you are.Ha,you have told them right?He is not committed to this relationship,and he is giving your number to other women.Do you want to marry a boy who thinks he is a man?Change your number,get rid of him,and not in that order.He thinks that you are stupid.Not trying to be mean but are you?You had enough sense to confront him about it,do you have enough sense to know what to do next?You ask what would i do?Well,i can only tell you from a mans point of view.You know what he's doing.You should also know that it will not stop.The chances are that this was going on before you too met and will continue if you yes you don't do something to end it now.In short,cut him lose and do it now before you get so rapped up in him that you let any and everything he does go.
2006-07-13 13:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting time asking us? You know what to do and you should have done it long ago. why are you going to marry such a man, do you really think that he loves you. He does not even do you the respect of trying to hide what he is doing.
If you do not dump this loser and get back all the money you can on that should never happen wedding, I will jump through this screen and smack you myself
2006-07-13 13:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so weird. It seems like he doesn't actually want to talk to these girls, or he would give them his phone number. So why give them any phone number at all, then? I would say you should definitely get to the bottom of it. After all, if he's planning to marry you, should he really be having romantic chats with other girls online?
2006-07-13 13:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you want me to tell you that he loves its normal but no he has no respect for you and that is something very important in a relationship coming with trust and communication don't let him disrespect you put yourself as number 1
2006-07-13 13:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bags, and count your blessings, that you found out about him in time, to prevent an awful mistake.
This guy is a cheater and a creep. Dump him now!
2006-07-13 13:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penidng marriage with THIS person spells inpending DOOM.
he's already going somewhere where he should not BE.
Find the right man, because he is NOT right for you.
2006-07-13 13:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop that Zero and get yourself a Hero he's playing games and you don't have time for the drama he's trying to issue you so let that loser have his sick twisted fun alone and you get the He// on.
2006-07-13 13:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell him it's over and that he should get a life then kick his ***, then go online and tell the other girls the truth about him and tell them that they should stop calling you and tell him that he had lost a good woman in his life, and that he will never find a nother woman like you.
2006-07-13 13:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋