Aloha!
I have a friend whose boyfriend is cheating on her.
I told her before, but she didn't believe me. I talked to her bf and he promised me he'll never do it again!! But now he's doing it again, I saw them making out at the movies,
and my friend won't believe me!!
The real problem is, the other girl is my friend's best and favorite sister!!.
What should I do???????
No rude remarks plz or I'll report u!
thanks
2006-07-13 13:18:48 · 26 answers · asked by Tinaaaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur friend isnt listening then u must b in a real tough situation. reasure her that u would never lie to her and that u r telling this for her saftey. maybe ask her to talk to her boyfriend about it, or hide a tape recorder under ur jacket or in ur pocket when u r talking to her bf about his other girl friend.
2006-07-13 13:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by tasha+sean=luv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's not much that you can do here. If you already told your friend what you saw and she didn't believe you, it is doubtful that she will believe you if you tell her again. This is a touchy situation, but maybe you should try to get your friend to catch him in the act, or you could take pictures like a detective or something, since she obviously needs visual proof. Otherwise, you can do nothing.
2006-07-13 13:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. You have told her and she will not listen. It is most likely, she knows and does not care. Often times a woman has a fear of being alone and for that fact will date someone that is not worthy of her, rather than dump them, no matter what the reason. You are a good friend, just be ready to be there for her when the relationship falls apart.
2006-07-13 13:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a great friend. You've done all you can do. If she doesn't want to see it, unfortunately she'll have to learn it on her own.
Your friend is in denyal. If you push too hard she'll think you are just jealous. Be there for her when reality hits, don't tell her "I told you so" or anything like that. Just be supportive and help pick up the pieces.
Take care.
2006-07-13 13:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what a disloyal sister! If your friend doesn't believe what you're saying to her about her boyfreind then she obviously doesnt trust you enough to be a good friend to you. Here's a tip talk to your friends sister about it and maybe you can guilt her into talking to her sister. Or maybe you can confront all 3 of them at once so they will have to come clean. or another idea is you can find out when her sister is going out with her boyfriend and bring your friend with you and show her. Then your friend will see how good, trustful, and loyal of a friend you are and will finally teach her boyfriend lesson!! good luck
2006-07-13 13:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by madison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. You have the info, but you don't have to do anything with it. Your friend will figure out what to do on her own. If your friend choses to ignore the info you gave her before, there won't be much you can do except stand by her when she does know what is going on.
2006-07-13 13:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the guy, and tell him that he needs to own up or you'll tell her. (its a lot extra constructive if it comes from him, she wont experience as embarrassed or betrayed as if it got here from you). plus you want to relax down formerly you talk to her. being all "OMG!" will in simple terms damage her. and embarrass her. once you're saying he kissed her, are we speaking a cheek kiss? because what if its in simple terms his sister or something? besides, understand that inspite of if he's dishonest- sixty six% of married human beings cheat a minimum of once. your pal ought to ascertain to forgive him.
2016-10-14 10:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you tell her the first time? It was none of your business and what she doesnt know, cannot hurt her...
And where do you get off threatening people if you dont like their answers? if you dont want to hear it, then dont ask
Remeber your last question??? where you fancied a guy but he had a g/f already???
double standards or what
2006-07-13 13:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would honestly feel in her shoes and what you'd really want then you'll know how to handle the situation. Take into account that she may wonder why you didn't tell her about the first time.
2006-07-13 13:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by JustJoiningTheFun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it is situations like that, you have to let her find out for herself. Cause as you said, she didnt believe you. Either you take some pics and send them to her anonymously or just leave it be.
2006-07-13 13:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋