how often is ok for boys to fight and be ok or normal?
2006-07-13 13:11:48 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am a single mom of 4 boys...their dad is not in the picture
2006-07-13 14:14:17 · update #1
I have 6 boys,and let me tell you, fighting is normal. As long as they don't hurt each other, i just let them go. I just try to ignore it to a point(like if one is hurting the other). I would lose whats left of my sanity if I worried about it too much. (LOL) Like the others said, boys will be boys!
2006-07-13 13:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by momx4 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please, people! Medicate them? Call 911? Do any of you people actually have boys? I have a 3 and 6 year old, and I can tell you that they fight all the time. Any psychologist will tell you that they are exploring their social limitations in a safe environment. Boys have to learn these pscho-social lessons through activity and role-playing, which very often greatly resembles fighting. Make them settle their own disputes and do not get involved unless a serious injury is imminent. If they really get truly angry at each other, then I make them stop and apologize to each other.
2006-07-13 14:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by TXChristDem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you handle boys when they fight a lot?
2014-12-12 15:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love how ADHD is the result of every fight brothers have ever had...if this were true..then there are a millions of men who have been neglecting their med for decades...
look they obviously need to find an outlet for their anger...and fighting is not an option...but when you are gone...hey it is gonna happen..so make sure that they know that there are places that are absolutely forbidden to hit...they can hit the arm, but not the elbow, they can kick the leg, but not the knee, above the neck is out as well as below the belt...the kidneys are out, the stomach is fine but the ribs are out....
you get my point...boring fight..ok..since THAT idea is out..why don't we go to the batting cages or the golf range and you can hit the ball and the ball can symbolize your brother..symbolism is wonderful...and when you come home and your knuckles are still intact and your hands are not broken...but you still have calluses on your hands...then you know you have won the fight..(obviously both win) and you averted the fight...
2006-07-13 14:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much is alot? 12 times a day? twice a day? If its 12, you might have them tested for ADHD. If they do not have it, then I would suggest a strong male influence to help guide the situation toward peace. If thats not possible, I would take things from them until they learned proper behavior. Things like playstations, bicycles and favorite toys. Also, ground them to thier rooms. This always helped me.
2006-07-13 13:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by shelly b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Boys will be boys but, fighting too much is not healthy.
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