I am in my mid twenties and i have never had a boyfriend.
Granted I am a bonefied nerd.....about to finish my professional studies and I dont think I am ugly
I have been in "love" but this was just a friend who was just "benefitting" from my emotions
does this make me wierd...
I will be free in a few months (graduating you see) and I feel so lost...and fear that I may never meet someone......
2006-07-13 13:00:04 · 27 answers · asked by missphatboottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when the time is right, you'll meet someone. it's great that you've done your studyng first. some guys are turned off by independent women, but don't get discouraged. and don't go to the bar looking for a date. just let yourself appear available. odds are, someone has their eye on you and hasn't asked because you're so education oreinted. once you get out there, you will find a great guy. good luck.
2006-07-13 13:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, youy have been concentrating on your studies and graduating. This can keep someone very busy with little social life. They say, there is someone for everyone out there. Maybe you dont get out enough to meet people especially guys. Find some good past times to do where you are more n likely able to meet a number of people. Socialize. Join a gym or out to a club dancing the night away. When you least expect it, it will happen. You will come across that special guy whom you can comfortably have a relationship with. Until then, just enjoy life. Take it easy. Good luck!
2006-07-13 13:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by tiffani72kmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be in a rush to meet anyone. And dont lower your standards just to meet anyone either. You have something great going for you that you worked hard to achieve. Im sure you can find someone with the same standards and achievements that you posses that will sweep you off your feet. No it's not weird at all to be honest you are just fine the way you are. The guy that you do meet will think the same thing!!
2006-07-13 13:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you need to make an appointment to get a massage, manicure, a full make over or should I say polish yourself. Then stop and think more about how much that you have to offer someone. Because by just reading you question it is so clear that you THINK that you are not pretty, sexy whatever you what to call it. So you need to change stop thinking like that, you are very special, like I said get a polish on your outer appearance and start thinking more positive on the inside. And I have always heard that there is someone special in this world for everyone.
2006-07-13 13:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine! You have just had your priorities in check. Having a boyfriend most likely would have distracted you from successfully finishing your studies. Believe me, I got married in the middle of college, and haven't finished yet. Marriage is great, but I am finding it a lot harder to concentrate on school. In fact, I have been on a year + hiatus. The right one will come along when it is time. Don't worry!
2006-07-13 13:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find someone is to not try too hard and just wait for your prince charming. Some people in your situation would probably jump to any guy that shows interest, but you need to just treat it with the philosophy that you'll find someone or someone will find you. Good Luck!
2006-07-13 13:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by GrnEyedGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't make u weird at all, as u said b4 u'll be free in few months and u can have a lot more time for your romantic life, u just need to get out more and be in charge of the "dating game".
2006-07-13 13:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for every one there is that someone special be proud that you have went that far in school. you didnt end up preg. with a dead beat baby daddy like a whole lot of the people i know. focus on you and the rest will soon follow. date awhile and see what happens. your a women please dont tell me no one will ask you out.. if noone will you may seem off limits to them. try asking a guy out that you like. im proud of you keep your head up you will find a nice guy just please dont settle for second rate. only the best..............
2006-07-13 13:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have your head screwed on right so I think you will be fine. You seem to have your priorities in order. When you start your next phase. You will find someone and have a Wonderful life. Good Luck.
2006-07-13 13:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're an intellectual women, men may be intimidated by you. Just be very friendly and approachable. You'll meet the right person.
2006-07-13 13:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋