how to deal with awkward remarks?

Question

i am 16 and i guess i have pretty big boobs for my age, and i often get remarks like those are some big titties, or i think you have a nice rack, im a 36c, what should i do in those situations? it makes me feel very nervous and embarrased especially from 20 to 40 year old men saying that,no i don't dress over my age

Answer 1

Sadly, society has not given men the tools needed to politely compliment a woman on her beauty. Or, rather, the tools have been given, but are ignored in favour of the boorish examples provided by mainstream media and "good ol' boys".

The Sex Wars have not helped either, making it almost literally dangerous for a man to genuinely compliment a woman for fear of being labelled a pig, a pervert, or a predator. So, when we do try to give a woman a compliment, it comes out all wrong.

Definitely work on a few select retorts, especially ones that sound like a compliment and leave them wondering what just happened. But save those retorts for the really "special" folks that annoy you.

Try turning the remarks around on them and be louder, for example:
"You have a really nice rack" could be fired back as: "You have crabs on your sack?!"

"Those are some big titties" could be fired back as: "You like to drum on kitties?!"

Probably not much help, but I am merely a man ;)

Answer 2

This is not acceptable for any "man" to say to a 16 year old girl. I put the word man in quotes, because a real man would never do this. These are boys who got older but never grew up. They even think they are being funny. I like the comment that one person gave you about asking them if their wives knew they were pedophiles. It sounds good but I'm afraid that in most cases this would not really help the situation and would only make them feel like they got your attention. If the situation seems right to you you might use that line or ask the older ones how they would feel if some pervert said that to their 16 year old daughter. In most cases though I would recommend that you just keep walking as if you never heard the comment. If the person is persistent, then pull out your cell phone, call 911 and report it.

Answer 3

Ignore them, is maybe the best way to go. Most guys are pigs and will say stuff like that...and there is really not much you can do about it.

You could try a snappy comment back....something to hurt their ego. It might make you feel better, at least a bit. A good one might be something like 'yes, they are big and spectacular...and you will never get to touch them'

Or you could just take it as a complement.....on the bright side, lots of guys like you

Answer 4

I like all sizes personally. I think your size is actually the prettiest though. Just realize that men are horny beasts and by looking they are mostly just giving you a compliment. A gentleman would smile and not say anything. Those guys are really rude to comment like that. Theyare just horny men in Summer and are appreciating your beauty. Avoid the rude people if you can though.

Answer 5

u should get a boyfriend to protect u from perverts that say dumb $hit like that or if ur more independent and dont want a guy so they can protect u then u should learn how to fight and $hit so when someone says some dumb $hit like "u got some pretty nice tities" u can just talk $hit to em and if they step up to u and try to get aggresive u'll already know how to defend urself!!!!!
Good Luck with that.

Answer 6

if she is in ordinary words 12 then she is likely purely being immature attempt sitting on her face possibly she is making an attempt to revolt if both you and your brother at the instantaneous are not immediately, she must be feeling stress from that or your mum and dad purely keeping, from the attitude as a lady with an older brother and sister yet yeah i ought to easily sit on her do sister like issues to her tell her to give up being ignorant because she would not understand what she is speaking about

Answer 7

Probably the safest action is to ignore them. However if you are looking for comments to make back, you have to be quick enough to think of a second line, just in case he is quick witted.

I would probably use a comment about the lack of size of his package.

Answer 8

I thin that you should send a pic of your rack to me so I can judge as to whether these remarks are truly warranted

Answer 9

Hey, thats a good thing! its like when girls see a guy they like and say hes hot or something. think of it as a comment, but thats jus what i would do if i was a girl

Answer 10

okay... for younger guyz and older guys you can always just say 'thanks babe' and go on your way... or there is always the famous 'yeah, my boyfriend agrees with you'..line, and you don't have to have a bf to say it... frankly, though, if a 40y/o guy said that to me, I would probably be pissed off and share a few of my thoughts with him... if you get the drift...

all in all, be proud of 'em, afterall their comments are compliments even if they dumb enough not to know how to express them properly...