What would you do if you were involved witha guy that you really cared about and he always ask you to have anal sex with him and you say no then one night you are laying in bed half a wake and he starts doing what he wants you lay ther and pretend to be a sleep just to see what he does and then he takes what he wants the next morning he barely mentions something happening you pretend you dont know what he is talking about and ask him then he just replys he doesn't know that he is sleepy. would you bring it up and ask him why he did it or just let it go or break up with him please give me serious answers
2006-07-13 12:37:15 · 12 answers · asked by southern angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What he did to you was wrong. If he really thought that you were asleep then this was a form of rape. I don't really understand why you didn't stop him from doing something that you didn't want to do. You have rights and should have stood up for yourself.
Personally, I would have stopped him, gotten dressed and walked out without another word.
2006-07-13 12:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you asking if you should ignor the fact that he raped you? Bring it up. Ask. You guys had talked about it- he knew your opinions on the subject and he went against them (in a very creepy way) and disrespected you. You might want to consider dumping him as well. What if you don't wake up? what else is he doing while you sleep?
2006-07-13 12:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of what you chose to do you need to address this situation. This is complete violation , suppose you told him that you didn't want to have sex period what would have happen then. You sound young, so here is serious advise. First of all you should of open your mouth there's not that much love between you if you allow him to do this. LOVE IS RESPECT, he does not respect you. Second, I believe a man that engage in anal sex is a down low brother trying to cover up his ****. Please wake so you donut end up with regrets.
2006-07-13 12:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't pretend something didn't happen ---nor would I lay there allow it to proceed..... if you are bothered by his actions and your own - then by all means break up --- you don't need further emotional trauma---go get tested for HIV---and get some therapy
2006-07-13 12:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not because I am a Guy ! That is a sick thought ! Why would you want that to happen to you ! That is the stupidest question on yahoo answers ! Were you writing drunk or something !
2006-07-13 12:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that guy is SICK, but still give him a chance.. talk to him about it first, get some serious answers, depending on what u get UR the one who should decide weather u wanna dump him or not.
good luck with ur confrentation x
2006-07-13 12:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by MaYoOoZ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you wanted it if you just layed there and took it.
2006-07-13 13:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure if someone has his thing in your butt you will feel it! iknow he knew oyu would wake up and he was joping that you would so nothing. this person violated your space and i will tell them..
2006-07-13 12:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both playing a dangerous game...
seek therapy.
2006-07-13 12:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by combat barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know what he did, then dump him!!! He's not worth your time!!!
2006-07-13 12:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Miley#1Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋