I don't kow how to ask him?

Question

I wrote earlier about the guy I liked for about 5 years, but now i'm not sure how to come straight out and ask him if he likes me too. Any help suggestions?

Thanks to all those who answered me. I can't really go anywhere with Aly (A.J. that's his name) because we are so far apart.....
Knowing that, does any one have any suggestions on how to tell him.......?

Answer 1

Just a suggestion--lead the conversation around to people's feelings, and ask him if he thinks people should tell each other how they feel. There's really only one answer to that: yes. Then ask him how he feels about you, and tell him you like him, all at once, so the cards are on the table. Good luck!

Answer 2

take him to a place that you know will both feel comfortable enough, more importantly for you as your the one expressing your feelings first, whether it be at a mall or restaurant etc. calmness is the key, just chat like normal and gently ease in to what u wanna tell him, lead into the topic first, then just be honest with how you feel about him. hope he gives you the right answer!

Answer 3

A trick that I've seen is to put yourself down. Make yourself all sad and pathetic...all 'no one likes me' and such. If he likes you he will jump in and defend you and even go the extra step and say he likes you(if he does). This can work good if you can get a Friend to 'stage' them putting you down and all.

It's dumb and corny...but has worked from time to time.

OR you could just ask him st right out.

Answer 4

if you have liked him for 5 years he must already know... and you must feel good talking to him... and i assume you have not had sex with him.. so just ask him... how do you feel about me... ????