ok so here it goes.. i need some tips on how to get noticed more by guys.. i am very pritty but the thing is im really shy to approach a guy myself.. but as friends i have so much confidence i can talk real easy.. but i cant with i guy i really like!!!! i think he might feel intimidated by me.. i dont know why.. i am one year older than him! please can i have some tips!!!!
2006-07-13 12:21:42 · 22 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are its not that you will intimidate him... he would probably appreciate it. Men usually are not intimidated by women ... even if you are pretty. They are however attracted to women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it.
2006-07-13 12:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Mo' 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am shy myself, what I would do in that situation. Is this: I would get a group of friends to all go out (make sure he will be there). This way you are all hanging out and having a good time. At some point throughout the night pull him over to the saide and give him the I want you look. See if he picks up on it. If he doesn't just give him hints. Put your hand on his arm when you are talking to him. And little things like that. Good luck girl
2006-07-13 19:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. Cinders here we go 1st thing arrange a night out with alot of friends and just invite him out on that night out,that way you get him where you want him out with you,then you go to work on getting him alone.
It's amazing how comfortable you feel when you are out with a group of friends enjoying yourself,the conversation will be easier.
Just talk to him not with the idea of i'm gonna trap you in my web,NO just talk and find out about him,guys appreciate the little things like taking time to find out about them,what they like and dislike,and i bet you,you will have a date by the end of the night.
Don't overdress and look trashy not with the 1st impression,and girls you know what i'm talking about the trashy look it's a big mistake.
Don't overdue the make-up either just a nice clean fresh look with the face which should not be a problem if you are as pretty as you say you are
2006-07-13 22:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by drexl100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's always a problem, pretty girls often do not get asked out because they are so pretty, and a lot of guys think that the girl would not be interested in them,
after all she is so nice why would she bother with me, she can get a guy with a great future very well educated and well off.
and that is what scares the hell out of some guys, they feel they have no chance, and so they shy off and don't bother with such a pretty girl, also some pretty girls act snobby because they know they are stunners, and that too can be their downfall, they end up scaring away most of the guys.
2006-07-13 19:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't really need to approach a guy. Just look all pretty and nice and he will come over to you(there is a reason why girls dress up and wear make-up).
Then just be yourself.......be all silly or weird and don't worry about what he will think. don't live in fear you will do something wrong or use a wrong word. If he does like you it won't matter and he will think it's all cute...
2006-07-13 19:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are pretty thenyou will not need much of anything, but dont go and sell yourself out Okay! i mean dont wear revealing clothes or look like a **** or something becuase that will get you attention but becuase young boys are immature they are not interested inrelationships! so they are just infatuated by the way you look and most likely they are not in touch with themselves.
so really all you have to do is have friends who are cool to be around and they will kinda flock to you.
girls are always intimidating becuase we are more mature faster, have to take resposibility sooner because of waht our bodies go through and what happens to us mentally.
so dont feel bad, its just that you are hot and he cant handle you lol goodluck
2006-07-13 19:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i first met my wife she was so nervous she dropped her drink in her lap there was a couple of seconds of total silence then we both burst out laughing,
it broke the ice as she later she said she thought i was a thug which was funny as i thought she was a stuck up snob
we have been together 12 yrs this September not bad for a blind date........every relationship has to start somewhere so what you waiting for
2006-07-13 19:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Grizley Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a clue for you:
1]normal guys are not intimidated by normal girls
a]what do you have that is so intimidating; your shyness-pllllleeeease!
2] be real, be sincere and show him some interest.
smiles, say hello , shake your tail feather's let mother nature do the rest!
2006-07-13 19:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go up to him and let him start a conversation and then you'll get comfortable cause hell be talking to you! you can also play the lip game!: go up to him (make sure he's in a group) look down for about five secounds then look up and slightly bite you lip( it's hotter when you are wearing lip gloss)
2006-07-13 19:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nikesfrshoutdabox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are not intimidated by shy woman, so be yourself and if it is a attraction, it will show itself in the most amazing way. you will know if it is right by his body language, don't rush. if it does not work, don't give up a good friend as good friends are hard to come by.
2006-07-14 03:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by markaod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be something you re not, if a guy comes to you its cos your way is what he is looking for. not all men want loud, confident, brash women, even men can be intimidated you know. good luck, the best relationships are when a man comes to you, cos he wants to ok.
2006-07-13 19:41:28 · answer #11 · answered by spike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋