well my boyfriend of 4 months is amazing, We hang out all the time and have most things in common but its not like we hang out everyday, he can go hang out with the guys i dc i have friends that i can hang out with so we don't see each other everyday.My parents are divorced and i have to visit my mom for 15 days out of the summer and well i called him and told him i was thinking about him alot and that i missed him..and he asked if i was getting obsessive..do you think thats obsessive? ..don't guys want to know there missed?
2006-07-13 12:13:53 · 18 answers · asked by Bria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd want to know I was missed
2006-07-13 12:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just recentantly got out of my 4 month relationship b/c he kep calling me obsessive, 2 tell u the truth guys really dont like 2 hear that they r missed, they just seem 2 care when ur getting home, i wouldnt call u obsessive i would call that caring and no some guys dont care if they're missed or not. while others want 2 hear constantly how much they're missed by u. guys r hard 2 figure out.
2006-07-13 12:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A guy does not want to know is is 'missed'. He knows you miss him, and he misses you too....and that's it. 15 days is nothing, no time at all. Guys don't think about time the same way girls do(for example most guys have pals they only see a couple times a year, but are 'best Friends'...and both guys think that is just fine).
2006-07-13 12:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times women and men are just on two totally different pages. Women are also more expressive of their feelings and we like to hear that we are missed. Men already assume that they are.... some like to hear it and some don't. I wouldn't really read into it to much right now... but when you get home pay attention to his actions and if his actions and they should show you how he feels. I would however sit him down and express to him how his comment made you feel. Maybe it will make a difference... don't know unless you try.
2006-07-13 12:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Mo' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not obsessive. You're not on the same page but this doesn't necessarily means that he's not loving you. Your longings are valid and I wouldn't be surprised if he finds that extremelly charming.
2006-07-13 12:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he has no clue as to what he is doing.. you have to tell me How Old Is HE? it sounds like he dosent know the out and ins to a relationship.
dont take it to heart try to explain it to him and if he dosent get it he probaly wont unitl further down the line so your in for a lot to handle if your a very mature person compared to him
dont sweat it
2006-07-13 12:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no count how a lot someone wanders interior the streets on the coolest of the day, he returns domicile. warm for couple of minutes yet to marry attractive on the coolest of the day. it really is a compromise. home made lentils in case you test menu from outdoors you'll drown in soup.
2016-12-10 09:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's worrying too much. I suggest if it comes up again, you tell him in explicit detail exactly what you're missing having him do to you -- that should take his mind off it.
2006-07-13 12:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course but hes probably trying not to show his true feelings. Which is what most guys do, unless their very feminine
2006-07-13 12:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to be the boss I suppose and kinda like small arguments. All girls that I know liked me have appeared to resent me. Mwahahaha *cough* *cough*
2006-07-13 12:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mike B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋