this guy i hook up with alot invited me over so i came. We messed around then he was like im going to shower, you comming? this nsounded exciting so i came and we just showrered together in the dark and talked about how we were going camping the next day (with friends as friends). Why did he feel the need to showetr with me i just dont reeally get why he would want to and not do anything sexual other then wash me. were not like romantically involved but this seemed like a romantic gesture and its confusing me. Whyy
2006-07-13 11:28:15 · 21 answers · asked by karla_justice18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im just confused of why he is being romantic out of nowhere. We casually hook up and he has never been romantic
2006-07-13 11:33:39 · update #1
The thing is we had just messed around ie got off, and then we showered. Weird i know
2006-07-13 11:39:27 · update #2
Well, showering together rather is a sexual than a romantic sign, I think. You seem quite open to do it without consideration - probably he'd like sex with you and perhaps also a relation.
2006-07-13 11:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by swissnick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think lots of guys have a shower fantasy of some sort. Maybe this was another way of him wanting to "hook-up" since you said you do it a lot. Showering means more touching, right? It could be a kind of romantic gesture, but not necessarily.
2006-07-13 18:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by minnymoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have two questions out there right now. I just answered your first, then noticed your new one. Is the guy you showered with the same hooking up partner your feeling jealousy over ("Joe)?
Yours truly, Lisa
2006-07-13 18:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Karla,
This is very confusing; on the one hand, and not so confusing on the other hand. If I was getting it on with a guy and we stopped to shower, I would be thinking we are going to finish in the shower; right. You didn't finish in the shower and he washed you? Are you dirty? Does he think your dirty? He is saying we are friends,[do you want more than friendship?]; going to be with friends? I am thinking you are not very assertive. There are to many unanswered questions here for me to know for sure what is going on. You all sound very, very, very young. I hope you are on birth control! Did you want to get it on? Were you on your cycle?
Hmmm?
2006-07-13 18:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing romantic. Well, maybe he's 4 real. A guy in that situation who doesn't do anything about either has feelings for you or is Dic|
2006-07-13 18:34:36
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When you guy`s were fooling around maybe he didn`t feel so fresh or maybe he didn`t think you were so fresh. I`ve done that to a girl when she wasn`t so fresh or I haven`t been to clean.. ALWAY`S WASH THE A S S!!! Run a sponge up the crack of that a s s if your gonna fool around!!!!
2006-07-13 18:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have thought you needed a shower or hoped it would be a most sensual experience, ask him how he feels and talk about your feelings rather than project emotions onto actions which can be misinterpreted and a good way to set yourself up for a fall
2006-07-13 18:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showering together is one of my favorite activities!!! I think it is a romantic jesture. Just ask him what was up???
2006-07-13 18:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... that is strange.... all the times I've taken a shower with my b/f ... we always had oral sex in the shower.. then finished up in the bedroom. Showering together is very sensual !!! HMMMMMMM ??????
2006-07-13 18:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted to see u naked or something. Or maybe that is romantic to him.
2006-07-13 18:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by murillo3193@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋