I'm in a good relationship but my man just can't satisfy me. What can I do to keep from cheating?
2006-07-13 11:25:46 · 19 answers · asked by Nia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are even considering cheating then the relationship has serious problems that need to be taken care of. In truth, they go way beyond the sexual. Take care of it... even if it means ending it.
2006-07-13 11:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some different positions, and if that still doesn't work then I guess you will have to leave him. Sex is a big part of the relationship. And if he's lacking in the department, then you must move on. But remember try other ways to improve.
2006-07-13 18:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by momokitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him about it? Myself, I achieve a higher level of pleasure by knowing that I am satisfying my partner. I want my partner to tell me what turns her on and to tell me when she is close to orgasm (although usually that is obvious). If he appears to only be interested in "pleasing" himself, then I would say that you have a "tough road ahead of you". I guess you could consider a "toy" but nothing is the same as the "real deal".
2006-07-13 18:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by JRandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree to tell him what you want. With a little guidance, he may become your best lover yet. And if you're still thinking of cheating, move on. He deserves to be with someone who's crazy about him.
2006-07-13 18:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him which way it gets you exited and satisfied. Do not be shy to give him pointers.
2006-07-13 18:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about where he isnt satisfying you, Give him hints, etc. suggest ways to spice it up, maybe you are the problem..........
2006-07-13 18:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy sexual toys, they work awesome! Or you could try different positions, or spicing up your sex life a little more....role playing, spontaneous sex..there are alot of ways to help you. I hope I helped
2006-07-13 18:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...give him a chance to do something different. what is the problem?? maybe show him what would work. teach him to be your lover or ask him to try a different way(oral?). good luck.p.s. if he's otherwise a good guy work it out. if he's not then dump his pitiful ***!
2006-07-13 18:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by dj@ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep him interested in u that is all u can do make him happy that he is with u and if u can't just get rid of him
2006-07-13 18:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by door knob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him so u can see other people while u ren't sneekin
2006-07-13 18:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by softballplayer913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋