I think a person should know if you have divoced, have childeren, career. Aslo your religion should match or one person should be willing to change. If the person has children, wants children or never wants kids. Where he lives, what city at least or even street.
2006-07-13 11:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by Jade Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should find out as much as possible although some people believe in taking it slow. Finding the right person is really like getting a good job (many people think this is a bad comparison, but when you think about it , both are important and long commitments if you do it right). It is important to find out the basics because if you don't , you will find yourself wasting alot of time losing someone whome you aren't interested in. Also i try to find out how many times they have been divorced as a guy dropped a bomb on me a few weeks ago that he had been divorced 3 times, yikes, I always ask how long they have been divorced now so I can see if they had more than one, it saves me some time. I say ask anything you need to know within reason.
2006-07-13 11:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 7⤊ 3⤋
That is too much for a first date I think! You gotta reveal yourself slowly to a person or they are gonna lose interest really quick. I mean there are other things you can let them know tho. Like your sense of humor, taste in music or what you do for fun. But dont tell unless he asks and then ask him the same. that way yall find out the same info at the same time.
2006-07-13 11:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by BigBrownEyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are certainly right. Unfortunately, a first date is not that simple. First dates are usually casual in nature. It is best to wait for the right opportunity to ask serious questions. This depends on when you feel you two are mature enough to move to a more intimate level. What do you think about advice, if you visit the web address below? (Point your arrow for a full view.)
2006-07-13 12:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by metallica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, all that stuff should be on the table. Honesty is important. Answer each others questions. I think its ok for partners to have different religeons as long as they are tolerant. Wanting kids or not is a key question.
2006-07-13 11:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all of that's necessary on a first date. I agree that those things are important to a relationship but not necessarily on a first date.
2006-07-13 11:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will advice you be on the defensive side by this i mean wisely make your date to talk so much about him or her but on your side say very little or nothing at all
2006-07-13 11:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by robert k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I need to know is her name and who has the bigger bed. Information about what she is going to cook for breakfast is good, but not necessary.
2006-07-13 11:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's kinduva lot for the first date really. If you want to convert religions is pretty damn huge.
2006-07-13 11:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by stratocastinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, you need to know the basics. You need to be aware of what you're dealing with.
2006-07-13 11:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats but tell no secrets too early
2006-07-13 11:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋