OK so Im indian like from india! and well IM not ugly! but im not a pretty blonde girl! I feel really left out between my friends because they always get the guys they like! Like one day my friend said she liked someone and the next day she found out he liked her to! I mean i tought people were racist! but that was stupid of me to think because black guys were hookin up with white girls! And when i like a guy He doesnt even give me a chance (or even look at me) ! IVE like never had a bf is there something wrong with me?................................................................................................................................................................................................................................ OR should i just give up?
2006-07-13 11:20:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop worrying so much, sweetie. Just enjoy being who you are, day by day. Practice kidding around with guys when you're with your friends, and be patient. Don't pressure yourself. Your guy will show up at the right time, and then you'll say it was worth the wait. Best of luck!
2006-07-13 11:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe start flirting a little more around guys. They might only see you as a potential friend unless you give them reason to think you might be interested in more than that. But, if you have to start acting like someone you're not, no guy is worth that. And keep your head up, because I remember feeling just how you do now, but as soon as I stopped focusing on that and doing stuff for me and no one else, guys started liking me for me and I was much happier. Good luck!
2006-07-13 18:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Oneofthesedays 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, you will be fine. Dont throw yourself at the guy and dont build a wall around you either. These kinds of this happens by itself, you are not suppose to rush in to it. You will come across the right person.. if you like a guy but he doesnt give you a chance then screw him, move on.
2006-07-13 18:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by GotiaSeth 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense to this please and do not take it personal as it is not my intention to do so. Here's what might be the problem, almost all the people I've known from India have a particular smell. I think it's because of the spices they might use for cooking. Try to smell pretty for the boys as they like that and try some kind of makeover, it seems to work too and you'll get their attention.
2006-07-13 18:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by claudia91701 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, you dont want to jump into a relationship that quick do you. I mean that you need to take the time to get a know a guy befor you say you like him or say he doesnt like you. Just losen up abit a remeber that the right guy is out there just take time to look for him. DONT EVER GIVE UP GURL!!!! pray about it
2006-07-13 18:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by *Shayla* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never give up but stop looking when you look for a guy you tend to see only what you want and you try to make them work..don't and just to let you know not all Blonde's are pretty some need a mask of make-up to look even some what date able.
2006-07-13 18:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. when the right boy comes along , he will see you as you and take interest, There is no hurry for a b/f. give up on the most important thing in your life? love and friendship with a boy. No way. hang in their and keep it smooth.
2006-07-13 18:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people taste differs
black men like shite girls casue it inceases thier status or they have a crush for whit egirls .
white men like indian girls and balck women as they like black girls as they are beauriful than white girls and good looking.
Beauty depends on behoders eye
indian men may like white womena nd whtie men like indian girls.
its a metter of taste
indian women like balck men too cause they hav ethe argest thinkie on earth.
indian men like balck girls casue they have the largest pot in the world.
white men liek indian girls cause they have the ssame sise thinkies
2006-07-13 18:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by knownotall person here how about 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try talking to the ones you like..they will not know you are there unless you get their attention.
2006-07-13 18:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by Gregie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl just be yourself and if all the guys that you like don't like that then you are better off without them........ the right guy will come along. trust me!
2006-07-13 18:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by shiba_owner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋