Ok here goes....if the marital bed is sacred does that mean that a man and woman can do anything? Is it a sin between 2 married people to have oral, or just plain weird stuff ?? This is a serious question and not being asked for a kick.
2006-07-13 11:10:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I dont believe it is sinful for a man and woman to do anything in the marrital bed aside from bringing someone else into it or doing anything both do not agree on. Have you ever read Song of Solomon? It seems to mention oral sex and foreplay as well.
2006-07-13 11:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow me. The Bible says that the marriage bed is sacred or undefiled, so it follows that a husband and wife could do anything be that oral, kinky stuff, etc. Another way to look at it:
God made marriage for love AND for SEX
If something makes you horny, no matter what it is, it's because God "programmed" us to be like that, so basically whatever a husband and wife want to do to get it on, they can. Simple.
Plus, could God really expect married couples to be married for over fourty years and still do it the same way time after time. NO!
2006-07-13 18:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by es_harper2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gentle and kind acts of love committed between a man and wife, including oral sex, are normal, healthy, and definitely NOT a sin.
The marital bed being 'sacred' is not to be fouled with OTHER people.
2006-07-13 18:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i know (i have a pretty good understanding of the subject) anything is fine as long as it is just between the two married people (man and wife). oral would be fine, just as long as its not like incest, bestiality, or homosexuality it would be fine
oh and to Dee, if you take the Bible like you say you do, and like I do, look at Leviticus 20:13
"If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads." (NIV)
I think it is pretty clear about homosexual relations, now this means that they deserve death but through Jesus, they can be redeemed and turn away from their sin. It is no different for any other sin or person. Rom 6;23, we all deserve death but God sent His Son to save us(John 3:16), if we repent (from any sin) and believe in Him.
2006-07-13 18:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no scriptures in the Bible on what married couples are allowed to do or not do concerning sex. Sex for humans being different from all other creatures in the fact that we have sex at anytime. Not determined by if we are in heat or not. Sexual enjoyment is a gift from God. The fact that there are no scriptures that direct married couples (man and woman) on what is right and wrong in sex basically is stating that what a couple agrees on for their sexual pleasure is OK. Forcing your mate to do things that he/she does not want to do violates the vows of marriage.
2006-07-13 18:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by foy_d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong with oray sex in a marriage. In fact I suggest a book on this topic
What Every Girl Wants: A Portrait of Perfect Love & Intimacy in the Song of Solomon by Lisa Harper
In the Song of Solomon it talks about oral sex in marriage. I would suggest that as a christian couple you pray about this
Christianity is about Grace alone Faith Alone Jesus Alone. it is a personal relationship with God.
2006-07-13 18:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by rbmath2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage bed is undefiled. Have oral sex if you want. Experiment with each other and enjoy each other. However, the anus is not for entry, it is for waste disposal. So if you make each other king and queen in your hearts. (Ie the husband makes the wife his queen, and the wife makes the husband her king), and you are both in agreement about what you do so that there is no coercion or forcing, then enjoy. God made sex to be enjoyed in a marriage.
2006-07-13 19:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by ManoGod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how u 2 think about it. If you're feeling guilty I don't think it's good for u. If it takes over your minds & if u do it frequently & don't feel satisfied unless u do it I don't think that's ok either. Hope this link will help u.
but it's the best if u give it to the Lord & pray about it both of u until u get an answer or a sign. Good Luck & have enjoy your love.
2006-07-13 18:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lola j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person has to decide that for themselves. There is some heavy "petting" going on in Song of Solomon that some people may conclude has some oral implications but that is up for grabs. If you are a true Christian and sincerely ask God for wisdom about this, God will help you decide.
2006-07-13 18:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by LARRY S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that they really even had that kind of stuff back then. so, it really depends i think. like, i think if you are comfortable with do that then yes go right ahead. but you might want to pray just in case and like ask if it is ok. and u know you u get an answer now u know....but if not.....i think it just depends whether or not you feel comfortable about. i personally think that since it says once you are married you can have sex it applies to all kinds. and god wants you to have a happy marriage right? so if this will make you two happier, go right ahead.
2006-07-13 18:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by germanalibaba92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋