He didn't come out and ask for it, but he talked about a specific amount to fix his car. I don't doubt he actually needs the money. But he lives in the states and I live overseas. We will be apart for another year. We have know each other for 8 months.
2006-07-13 10:39:54 · 6 answers · asked by misssophia299 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT give him the money...unless it says ATM on your forehead.
You're not living together...you're not engaged....you're not married. He's a big boy...let him work out his own financial issues. Unless you want to BE his ATM and his MOMMY.
If you are foolish enough to loan him money...make it a LOAN. Complete with legal document, signature and schedule for repayment, and interest...if any.
2006-07-13 10:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he says "can you lend me X amount of dollars" and i will pay you back by a certain date... Dont do it!!! This is how people end up getting screwed over... tell him I can lend you $100 or something now.. and if you never get it back, oh well its only $100 but if he is asking for a significant amount of money that you may need yourself in the near future tell him, I'm sorry i would help if I could but I really cant afford much right now. If he has no money in his savings set aside for emergencies, and you do, then I think this should be a red flag to you RIGHT NOW!!!! I'm just warning you because I myself have missed warning signs and been taken advantage of financially. And dont think < oh hes different, because if hes broke- Hes not any different!!! Good luck with him!
2006-07-13 17:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your situation and I actually loved this guy, I would give him the money if I had it. But I wouldnt do it on a regular basis. Especially since you live so far apart. Dont let him get used to hitting you up for cash
2006-07-13 17:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Baby_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him any money unless you are married to him.
2006-07-13 17:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the money... but not let it become a habit
2006-07-13 17:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~J♥L♥L~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not for you to fix the problem for him.can you help him where he will pay you back.can you trust him to pay you back.i won't it.
2006-07-13 17:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋