If the sex is bad, are you willing to sleep with the person again to see if it can improve?
2006-07-13 10:17:48 · 38 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is an actual 'just curious' question. I'm not experiencing bad sex, for those wondering.
2006-07-13 10:31:45 · update #1
Keep in mind, no one's perfect. You can ask all the so-called sex experts out there, it takes time to be good. And if someone switches partners like how often they go to sleep is going to have a tough time pleasing one person to the fullest. Everyone is different and require different techniques to get them off. What others might find amazing might make you cringe at the thought of someone doing to you.
But to answer your question, if I love the person, I would give them many tries. Until we are both satisfied.
2006-07-13 10:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by jade11378 3 · 4⤊ 5⤋
That was a huge mistake in my life a long time ago. I had a bf that he was virgin so do I. We finally have sex and the first time of course was awful. I never felt a thing... while I was reading and reading and asking friends about sex and why I can't never have an orgams, they told me is cause his size was too little, yes Size MATTER (3 inches and a half) is too little.
To be even worst my case, he didn't like to give me oral sex. And he only wanted to have sex once or two per month. I was frustrated... and the worst part is when we finally have sex, he only can do it two times and there's was me playing with myself in the front of him and horny.
It was nightmare and yes I was waiting to someday it will get better. I holded it for almost 3 years until one day I can't not take it anymore and I dumped him.
Since that experience I believe in two things, passionate guys like me and no virgins allow.
Nice question.
2006-07-13 10:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be bad??????? LOL...... Better fix your sexual partner picker....... well anyways .... hmmmmmmm, I guess it would depend on why the sex was bad.
Did that sexual partner abuse drugs that night or have a bad reaction to a recent life event, emotional stressor or physical trauma? In these cases I might try them in bed again ... (maybe this time use a paper sack over their head).
But, it was it bad because they were just nasty people be it an sanitary, lame, spiritual or ultra-perverted issue I would real quick change my name, buy a faster car, a bigger gun, get a restraining order ... maybe dye my hair, start wearing glasses and learn another language.
2006-07-13 10:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by rcabrave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex was bad it is as much your fault as it is his. While you were together did you talk to him and let him know what you liked and wanted?
Didn't think so.
Besides, maybe he was new at it and needs some practice. If you are judging the relationship based just on the sex, you should probabl avoid relationships altogether and just start getting hookers.
2006-07-13 10:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the sex, if for some reason you could not have sex, would you be happy in the relationship. If the relationship is good, work on it. If the relationship is not good...why bother.
2006-07-13 10:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guilty of bad sex and wondering if he will sleep with you again?
I guess it depends on how horny I am and if there is anybody else worth bangin'.
2006-07-13 10:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by BAD BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm crazy about them, yes.
I'll have in mind the things I want to try out the next time
to make things better.
Like slow down, more foreplay, more oral...
Esp if the other person was inexperienced and willing to learn,
you can teach him how to please you.
2006-07-13 10:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by ladders_to_fire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care for the person.. yes. and if sex is still bad you could talk to the person and tell what you think
2006-07-13 10:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by NiceGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Maybe it was they were nervous and couldn't perform correctly. But now since they have been with you already they lossen up and ready to make a great performance.
2006-07-13 10:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex is bad sex,if you get it when you want it.I will get mine if I am horny enough.But by some chance you are not being pleased,perhaps telling your partner what you want him to do(or not do) will he;p.Let's face it my dear,none of us are mind readers.Say what you want,if he obliges GREAT!! If he doesn't,find someone who will.Simple.
2006-07-13 10:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋