ok if you and your boyfriend have been dating for 2 months.and you did something with him.not sex...why do guys tell there friends everything??? my boyfriend gave me his myspace password and i went on it the other day and my boyfriend told his friend everything.and i was mad.but i don't want to tell my bf that i went in his myspace and saw this..how can i make him stop?
im 16
2006-07-13 10:07:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Stop 'doing' things with him. If he can't keep his lips sealed, then kick him to the curb. Guys like to brag to their friends, but that doesn't make it right.
BTW, if he GAVE you his myspace password, you should tell him. There's no point in beating around the bush.
2006-07-13 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's how young boys are. Not all are that way, but a lot are. They want to seem "Kewl", so they tell all these lies to make them fee like a "Man"... you just need to comfront him and ask him if he tells them stuff. If he says no, then you know he's lying, and just tell him you saw it and you know the truth. I mean, you would be catching him in a lie, and you don't want to be in a relationship if lying is involved ya know? So just go straight to him and talk. You don't want that getting around to even more people. Maybe his friend will tell others, so you just need to stop it before it goes further! You don't want to have people thinking things about you that aren't true right? Good Luck... hope I helped!
2006-07-13 17:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by SwtPrincess1128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but at 16, you face many more years of this. Especially as guy's tend to stay that same age (mentally) til about 50. Either way, either don't worry about what any of his friends think, or tell him to knock it off or there won't be any more things to tell the guys. Or, better still, tell him he's a jerk and you can't be bothered to date someone so indiscreet.
2006-07-13 17:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Terri A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell i would say something if he gave u his myspace password then too bad 4 him because he can't get mad for u looking cause u can get mad for him telling. and he's a guy don't do stuff with him for a long time make him beg for ur forgiveness.
well doyalikethat has a point nevermind about what i said.
2006-07-13 17:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha yea u r in da wrong spot. go to family and relationships, then to Singles and dating. Alright as to your question, I think it's kinda instinct to want to show off "how far you went w/ a girl". I can relate to it, and i'm sorry for doing it. But one thing is u might want to like promise that you won't tell anyone what you do together, i mean the close stuff, just keep it a secret. If he won't respect that, more desparate messures r needed, n' i'm not the one to go to, haveing never had to go there.
good luck
:)
2006-07-13 17:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by tallballa07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a boy that is just trying to show out in front of his friends , even the grown up ones do that sometime. talk to him tell him how much that hurt. that what ever happens between ya should stay between ya. I am sure he did not mean to hurt you he is just dealing with being a teenage boy. BUt from me to you I would wait to do anything else with him . but i am a mom and really would not want my 16 yr to do anything till after college and married ( moms can dream)lol
2006-07-13 17:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reguardless of age, If the one you love does not make you want to be a better person then you do not love them. Also if the one who loves you does not want to be a better person then he does not love you. You are a prize for the moment, although now he will know that besides being a conquest you also snoop on his business. Great relationship here.
2006-07-13 17:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, guys will be guys...i know this because i am a guy :)...anyway, he will tell his closest friends (if he has any close friends) no matter what, but if you tell him not to tell everybody, he wont. I know that you will care if he tells everybody no matter what, but think of it this way: he obviously liked it if he is telling everybody..that means you are good at it, and as long as he not saying anything negative, dont get TOO upset about it....
ps. sorry he did that.
2006-07-13 17:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking in his myspace. Guys like to brag. It is compitition. Tell him how you feel.
2006-07-13 17:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by seatonrsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can try to get him to stop is by discussing with him how upset it makes you feel.
If he really cares about how you feel, he'll cut it out.
Otherwise, you may want to get rid of him.
2006-07-13 17:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋