ok if you and your boyfriend have been dating for 2 months.and you did something with him.not sex...why do guys tell there friends everything??? my boyfriend gave me his myspace password and i went on it the other day and my boyfriend told his friend everything.and i was mad.but i don't want to tell my bf that i went in his myspace and saw this..how can i make him stop?
im 16
2006-07-13 10:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
ok, guys talk... it's what they do. they try to play like girls are the only ones who talk about things like this but they are just as bad. it gives them bragging rights that they got some. they especially like to brag if the person the are talking to hasn't had any in a while. there is basically nothing that you can do to stop them from telling anybody they can. it helps to stay blissfully ignorant. or he may have wanted you to find out if he gave you his myspace password and he knew that he had written to a friend about the situation. So it boils down to two ways to make him stop...1. don't do anything with him anymore or 2. withhold doing things with him until he promises to stop talking to his friends about it ( but in this case, still expect him to talk and you to just never find out).
by the way, i am a girl. i'm just using my friends computer
2006-07-13 10:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by grimjack1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a boyfriend that has 'kiss and tell' syndrome. He could have a bet with his friends. I don't think he can, will, or would want to stop. This make him the center of attention with his friends. Sounds like he has a problem with self security. Either tell him to stop or have your life spread all over the internet. Other than that he has broke the trust issue. Can't get that back, no matter how hard you try. Remember the first time something happens it was considered an accident after that you become a volunteer in his little game of one up.
2006-07-13 10:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend gave you his password, then he expected you to use it, which you did, you must tell him that you went on and had seen what he`d told his mates, and that you are very angry and hurt that he has said anything, you must tell him or your anger will grow and it will affect your relationship. If he was serious about you would have kept things to himself. But ....... If you want to give him another chance then do so but be careful, whatever you do together now you`ll always wonder if he`ll tell anyone.
2006-07-13 10:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you the password, so he obviously wanted you to see it. Talk to him and ask him what he thinks trust is and that you feel violated by him posting it-talk it out-your relationship will go nowhere fast without communication.
2006-07-13 10:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have his password you can post something that looks like it came from him. Put up a I am a chronic liar post.
2006-07-13 10:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything for a long time and if he really cares about you, he won't pressure you. Plus it's in a guys nature to tell of his "conquests" It's a male thing. I'm sorry. :-(
2006-07-13 10:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mario E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave you his password, then he must know you went on his page! He knows you know.....so don't pretend like you don't know! And dump the loser..........he doesn't respect you.
2006-07-13 10:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bj's for the boy!!!! make him learn sister yu have to power of p-hole to always hold over a man's head...you can make them do whatever you want if you use it right.
2006-07-13 10:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by doo to doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in and Chang his password and then he wont do that any more
2006-07-13 10:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋