If your ex lover attempted suicide would you be there for him/her even if you've moved on, and its only been a month or so?
2006-07-13 09:47:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course. u loved them at a point in time, and to be honest, u never stop loving them.
2006-07-13 10:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by csalm87 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on whether they're manipulative or not. If they are, then I'd be suspicious that this was an attempt to get me back into their life. In which case, I'd be there for them in the sense that I'd suggest where they could find help. Same thing if we broke up because I couldn't handle their depression. If they refused to get help, then there's really nothing I can do for them since I'm not a professional.
If it's just a passing thing for them and we're still on good terms then, yes, I'd be supportive of them, but not full time. Again, I'd encourage them to get help outside our relationship.
2006-07-13 17:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even though you may have broken up, it is good to still remain friends, as long as you and your ex can make sure it goes no further, as well, it was almost a lost life, so this person will need someone to talk to, it may be easier to open up to you than anyone else.
2006-07-13 16:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them Know that there is no one in this world worth killing there self's over you can be there friend but it wouldn't be wise to get back i a relationship as boyfriend and girl friend only more problems get them the profesional help they need.
2006-07-13 16:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really loved and cared for the person I would be there for them in a heart beat regardless the situation.
2006-07-13 16:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definley! Help him/her. Your still the littlest bit of friends. How would you feel if you didn't help and he/she killed the themself. And you know in the back of your mind if you did something it could of help. The person who wants to commit sucide would proably listen to you because they have feelings for you and trust you. They know you better then just an old friend who could help.
2006-07-13 16:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diffenitly..... you and this ex-lover know eachother very well already (I hope) and that would make it easier for him/her to be comforted by you.
2006-07-13 16:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....i would be there for him no matter what...my new lover would just have to understand that there is a special bond that we share and we are just friends.
2006-07-13 16:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I'm human.
2006-07-13 16:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-13 16:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Beatifulhunnie1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋