My dad thinks me and my b/f did it because he spilled ice tea on his pants and i washed them. but he had shorts on. NOTHING HAPPENED AT ALL! i dont believe in doing it before marriage. My b/f told him he spiled it somewhere elsa then what i said. but he really did spill ice tea
2006-07-13 07:35:36 · 13 answers · asked by April 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Well you need to sit and talk to your dad without the boyfriend. Obviously it means alot to you what your dad thinks. Tell him you really wish he would trust you,because you care about what he thinks. Tell him although other girls are out there having sex, you really believe it is a sacred thing and wish to wait until you are married. Remind him that he raised you well and you aren't like other girls. Maybe the next time he spills something, you should send him home to change.
2006-07-13 07:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did your dad ask you if you had sex with your boyfriend?
If he did, just tell him the truth. If you want to bring it up, just say something like "Dad, I wanted to talk to you about the other day when
2006-07-13 14:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by My name is not Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try getting you and your boyfriend together and asking your dad to speak to you for a minute. Be honest and tell him what really happened and which ever one of you lied about where it happened, tell him you lied and why. Let him know how you feel about sex before marriage and let him know that you don't want the trust he had in you to be gone over a simple misunderstanding. Good luck! Hope all goes well!
2006-07-13 14:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by MSHOTTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your Dad. Let him know your views on sex before marrage. Tell him flat out its not your style. He raised you to be smart and it sounds like you are. Maybe he just doesnt like the idea of his "little girl" dating. because you will always be his little girl no matter how old you are. Trust me on that one.
2006-07-13 14:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Coyote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if you were to do something with your boyfriend, you wouldn't make it that obvious. Tell him that you don't believe in sex before marriage, and that if you ever change your mind on the subject, you will let him know.
2006-07-13 14:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad was once your age. Their is nothing you can say or do to change the fact that he does not believe your word or your boyfriend's word. The only thing that you can do is to not give him any reason to prove to himself that he was right.
2006-07-13 14:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by sea_dragon_76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dads are tough. Always tell him the truth. There is no way you can make him believe you. Maybe cool it with your boyfriend around your dad.
2006-07-13 14:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you didnt do anything then dont worry about it, if your dad doesnt believe you what can you do ..NOTHING! You sound like a smart young lady.
2006-07-13 14:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by sherry r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't convince him, just tell him you did it just to end the story and move on
2006-07-13 14:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by rubber fender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your dads concern. why didnt your boyfriend go home and change, if that is all it was...
2006-07-13 14:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋