We broke up 3 months ago. The reason was because she thought "we were to comfortable together". Anyways, we barely spoke up untill last week, I called her b/c she's been on my mind since the break up and im still in love with her. We hung out that night and had a great time. At the end of the night we ended up kissing, it felt exactly like our first kiss on the beach. The kissing led to other things and we ended up having sex. Now, im confused, she tells me she doesnt see us getting back together and that she only wants to be friends. I keep telling her that I cant be friends with her b/c my feelings for her are too strong. Yesturday, We went to the beach and she wore her thong bikini and she knows how sexy I think she is in that. Is she messing with me? While she was laying on her stomach she rested her feet on my lap. I started flirting with her by massaging and lightly scratching them. What should I do? Do you think she's just playing games with me?
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2006-07-13 07:24:53 · 11 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on you can do better!!!! good luck
2006-07-13 07:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She isn't playing games. But I'll tell you something that'll shock you:
You are.
Why? Well...it's like you said; "I keep telling her that I cant be friends with her b/c my feelings for her are too strong"
Are these not your words?
And like an idiot, your still seeing her. Yes, I called you an idiot. Here's why:
The way she's looking at it is this; "Well I guess the relationship didn't work, but it seems we are having a much better time with each other now that we have the independence of doing our own thing"
Can you blame her? She having a great time that now your "friends with benefits" Instead of her telling you to kiss her *** after you guys broke up, she still likes that fact that she can be open and date other people, as she chooses. She assumes that your doing the same, but it's not bothering her. In other words, she not letting a good thing go to waste.
Does that mean you should accept that? Well...let's look at what you said again; "What should I do? Do you think she's just playing games with me?"
And hear it is...playing the wonded duck syndrome; "HELP ME HELP ME! MY WING IS BROKEN!"
Writing is on the wall. You don't want this kind of thing and she'll never get back with you again. You can rock her in bed better than a porn star, but that's not grounds for her to have a relationship with you again.
Be smart and walk away, but be mindful and respectfull about. As I've said to many people; Know what you want and be a man about it.
Besides, if you had a relationship with a pretty girl as you've described your ex, WHAT THE HELL ARE DOING WITH HER?! YOU SHOULD BE DATING GOO GASS OF PRETTY WOMEN ALREADY, YOU DOLT!
Good luck and move on!
2006-07-13 07:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, there are so many options, and, it's a huge world, get out there, and hang. You DON'T have to have a g/f all of the time, so maybe it's time to take a break and get your own life growing, then, when the doll of your dreams, the one you want to have 87 babies with comes along, she will see it in you, and you will, also in her. Good Luck! :)
2006-07-13 07:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you- she is messing with you- she likes the "fun & excitement" that a first date (dates) bring- you know the feeling im talking about!!! hey i am addicted to it too- once you get in a relationship, all the fun, romance, excitement, butterflies start to die- right or wrong- so i kow this because i am quite guilty of it myself- its more fun, the trouble is, you care too much about her, im not saying that she doesnt care that much about you, im just saying she is addicted to the "high" a new romance brings.... but if you cant play that way then i think you should walk away- trust me, she'll be back
2006-07-13 07:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by blahblahblah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reap the rewards then if it comes a time for it to be over then so be it. enjoy the goodies without getting hurt!
2006-07-13 07:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second hurt is even worse, lose her before she rips your heart up, and you start to think all girls are like her! move on love on, love roccks!
2006-07-13 07:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by love roccks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just play along, don't get mix emotion wit her. Sometimes sh!t happens.be careful though... she might have u on a string...play on player....lol
2006-07-13 07:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iam mending a broken heart sow i guest we can understan how we both feel
2006-07-13 07:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she is shes using you to get what she wants try to move on
2006-07-13 07:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by jackie84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is messing with you find someone else.
2006-07-13 07:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋