i was with this guy a year ago like for about 2months...but it didn't work coz his friends didn't like me and i was still inlove with my ex...when we broke up we stayed friends and i actually fell inlove with him...thing is now he wants me back but i'm afraid the only reason i'm considdering this is coz i'm tired of being alone...and i'm afraid of not getting better...i know those are wrong reasons for being in a relationship but should i give it a try?
2006-07-13 07:21:59 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go back to him if he dumbed you because his friends didn't like you its not worth it.........sorry I know being alone sucks but lots of people are.........
2006-07-13 07:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is only one right reason to be in a relationship from my point of view and that is if u like the guy and think it will go somewhere. Try predicting the future, what would feel about him if u did. what it would like to look at him in "that way" again? If u love him and ur sure of it dont hesitate. There is no wrong reason for love, it just happens and if it's real it will be powerfull and true and u will survive anything. Its all up to u and how u feel.
2006-07-13 07:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by rak15tango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately, you have answered your own question when you say,"...i'm afraid the only reason i'm considering this is coz i'm tired of being alone..."
True romantics always say "follow your heart." I'm old enough to know that if your heart doesn't match your head, then its not going to work.
I've known many people, myself included, that have followed their hearts, even though their brains are telling them that it has reservations. Believe me, if your thoughts aren't on the same page as your heart, don't do it.
As for being tired of being alone, take heart! This condition will not last forever. And you will be much happier with the right person, ok?
Good luck to you.
2006-07-13 07:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Edward K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the circumstances everyone deserves a second chance. Hopefully he has matured enough to realize that he shouldn't let what other people think direct his decisions. Any how, you should consider giving it a try. Sometimes to heal one must move on and begin living again. You stated that you fell in love with him so for you to feel love towards him you must be pretty much healed from your past relationship. Maybe not completely but enough to have feelings for another person. Being that you have feelings for him I don't think it would be considered as you being with him to end loneliness.
2006-07-13 07:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking you shouldnt try it because then you might regret your decision and have to hurt him by breaking up with him. If you have any doubt then you shouldnt be in that relationship because then that will most likely lead to heartbreak. Besides if his friends didnt like you they are going to give the both of you a hard time. That feeling of loneliness eventually it will go away because you will notice that having a bf/gf is not that important, in the end it is YOUR decision, hope you make the right choice.
2006-07-13 07:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't......you need to be able to be happy on your own and be independent....not feel like you need a boyfriend to make you happy.....If you get with someone because your afraid to be alone you will always feel that way and never be able to depend on yourself.....Its not good to live your life that way...to always depend on a guy......your life is in your hands.......be sure that you can be content with being alone first then your ready for a relationship.....you don't want to settle for anything because your afraid of never finding better.....that's not fair to you OR the person your with.
2006-07-13 07:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go in a relationship for the wrong reasons.. it'll bite you in the a$$ in the longrun and then you'll be telling yourself "I effin' knew it!!"
If this guy can break up with you for a reason as small as his friends not liking you.. who knows what his next reason will be? You can do a lot better..
2006-07-13 07:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why repeat yesterday's mistakes? He didn't hold your interest last time, why would he this time? Why make him care more now and hurt him more later when he has more involvement with you? It is just a no win situation to go backwards little one. Always no good. It is like picking through yesterdays garbage, you already threw it out once. Be nice to both of you and stop this madness.
Blessings
2006-07-13 07:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give it a try but realize that you might still be hurt again. You have split with him once so watch out. Try to be extra nice to his friends this time and see what happens. But be happy.
2006-07-13 07:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, getting into relationships with that kind of motivation usually leads to more pain and anguish and being alone even more. Just be patient.
2006-07-13 07:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if it didn't work once, it won't work again. Just take Eminem and his Ex for example. They married once and they had a kid. Then they divorced. Then they married again this year (to try to work things out) and it didn't work out. They were only married for 82 days.
2006-07-13 07:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋