Please help me :(?

Question

I have taken every single quiz looked at all the depression info and everything matches up. I feel like there is no point to life and I was just sitting here crying because I was reading everything and I would never be able to tell my mom because she thinks its because I'ma teenager. Everytime I try to tell her something she is too busy or doesn't wanna talk and it's all been bottling up for 2 years. My friends don't understand I am just REALLY sad and my mom won'tbelieve me please help I don't wanna be so sad

I don't ever wanna do anthing and I feel like I don't wanna be loved because its always gonna be the same and I will be this way ...forever

I have so many reasons to be like this my home, mydad, friends, life, self esteem so amny things I cannot solve on my own and my mom just won't believe me

I wish I could choose all your answers so farc

My temper non stop builds up I have constant anxiety attacks and I have panic attacks my dad left me and just thinking about never seeing him again becaus emy mom or dad is dying if anything is wrong with my health I think I am going to dye or get cancer...it's hopeless because I never have anyone to believe me

Answer 1

I had the same exact problem. I was depressed, my mom ignored me, by dad ignored me and is an alcoholic. Just be careful, don't act out! Don't do anything crazy or they will stuff you in a mental hospital and put you on a TON of drugs. Talk to your mom, tell her you are depressed, do not mention suicidal unless you really are, because the will lock you up and put you on drugs. Be stong, being a teenager is very emotional and hormonal. Mostly it is your hormones, your parents or lack thier of, and perhaps some genetic depression.
Write poems, stories, keep a diary. Try to find things that make you happy.
EAT RIGHT AND GET EXCERSIZE! This is SUPER important. Talk to a medical doctor first.
Tell your mom to take you to the doctor for a physical check up, don't make a big deal, then once you get to your primary, talk to him/her and tell them how you feel, he might recommend a shrink. Shrinks can be good and very bad, just be very careful. DON"T ACT CRAZY TO GET ATTENTION THIS WILL DO YOU NO GOOD AND MUCH BAD.
Take care.
Contact me if you need to talk.

Answer 2

1) NOTHING lasts forever, so don't let yourself believe you'll "feel like this forever".

2) Get to a doctor, NOW. Bring along a print-out of your question if you don't feel like talking. If your mom won't help you get to a doc, then get yourself to a clinic; even an emergency room. There are also mental health Helplines, both community based and national. 1 (888) 7WE-HELP is one, 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357) is another. Look in your local phone book. Also you have the option, a good one, of talking to your counselor or nurse at school, a trusted teacher or adult relative other than your mom. The important thing is TALK to somebody who'll listen.

3) I've been there. And now I'm out. You can be free, too. And better. And back into life. I promise.

Answer 3

Hi there sweetie: I know exactly how you feel, I've been fighting serious depression for many many years. One thing I have learned is that it's very important to get a support system going, ie: psychiatrist, therapist, and medication. If your mom won't believe you talk with, your principal, or if you have counselors at school talk with them. If that doesn't work talk with a doctor or nurse. If you have a mental health clinic in town, just go and talk with someone there. It's IMPORTANT to get a system going as quick as possible,because maybe the sad feelings may not go away, but at least having someone to talk with will help you deal with all the feelings. And that's what we have to do is recognize that we have a problem and do the best we can to survive it. Hang in there sweetie you are not the only one

Answer 4

Depression is a serious illness. It should not be taken lightly and you should not try to resolve the situation on your own. If at all possible, you should try to see a doctor about this condition. If you cannot turn to your mother, and you feel "lost" when it comes to finding a doctor or counselor, is there another adult from whom you can seek advice? An aunt or uncle? A member of the clergy? Your guidance counselor at school? In my experience, depression does not go away on its own. Now, your mother could have a point, in that adolescents often suffer from depression; however, that does not mean it should be ignored.

Answer 5

maybe part of this is the growing up process, but i was (am) the same way. i feel like the the majority of the time and i am now 36!! it feels horrible. unfortunately, being a minor you cannot do much. even though you don't want to do anything try and always keep your self with people, do what ever you can to keep your mind occupied. that helps a little. i know it is very hard, it helps when you finally find someone who understands this problem, it is a shame most people don't. i wish you the best, and good-luck. hang in there!

Answer 6

Hi sweetie...I know you're feeling sad and crappy at this time, it must have been a really difficult time for you. I have been with a depressed person for some time too and still am. It's not your fault that you feel sad okie. o('u')o *hug* Talking to a counsellor would be good because what you need most now, is someone who would be able to just sit there with you, listen, and give you that emotional support and encouragement. You can drop me a message anytime when you feel down okie? :)

Answer 7

i don't know if this will help, but i ve been there for about 6 years now, i always thought that i was suicidal, never cared to shre that with anybody, i tried to jump off the roof, no one cared, happily that is about the time i realized that i suffer from a crippling fear of heights, i always wished that i had never been born, i just couldn't see the point of going on, i am still like that now and after dumping my last bf, well we had a nice thing going on until i realised that i felt nothing for him, not even remorse for screwing his mind up, i feel desolate and alone, and sort of started having imaginary friends again , because no one seems to understand what is like to live thinking that you will never love or be loved again.

Answer 8

It is already good that you have identified the problem - I would go to my doctor and discuss it at a check-up. It could be a chemical imbalance that is easily fixed. Things WILL get better, so try to hold on and reach out for help. Or you might want to see if there are any support groups in your area if there are no trusted friends.

Your YAHOO friends will always try to help! :)

Answer 9

i went back and looked at all your recent ?'s, and judging by those i think your to worried about what ppl think about you. my hair this, gucci that, . STOP! you cant be loved until you love your self. i still dont get why ppl dont understand that. what you have to do is take some time to get to know your self again. it seems like ever since you lost that boy your lonley and depressed and dont think you can ever get anyone else again. thats not true. you got him right? you got your family right? all you need is self love to get anywhere in your life. if you think you can do it, you can. just remember that. and stop self loathing. tis only going to get worse if you dont. dont dawn on the negitive things, try and make positive things happen.

Answer 10

Take a deep breathe and relax. Life is worth living. I think maybe you shouldn't take anymore of those quizzes it will only help to make you even more depressed. I know becuase I get depressed sometimes.
And If you can't find someone to talk to you can always email me. I am almost always checking my yahoo email.