If a guy should stood me up on a date, what should i do?

Question

me and this guy going out, but im afraid that he will stood me up....what to do if he does do it?

Answer 1

Ask him why. He may have a reason. He may not.

Answer 2

You haven't even come to the date night and you are worried about being stood up? Why? Does this guy have a reputation of doing this? First you need to get your self esteem up. Think positive. If you think negative thoughts all the time, chances are negative is going to happen. Now on the slight chance that this guy turns out to be a loser and stands you up, then what you have to do is say "His loss", call up a couple girlfriends, hit the clubs and find yourself a better guy that is more deserving of a fine girl like yourself.

Answer 3

Well, don't freak out till after the fact!!! All you're doing is getting worked up about something that most likely won't happen!

And if you think it WILL happen, then don't set yourself up for that sort of disappointment. Duh.

Finally, if in fact you feel he's the good guy, but still has something happen where he can't meet you AND doesn't call to explain, then make sure he's got a cast on his body, or a family member died or something before you go off the deep end about it.

Answer 4

Well first of all, do you like him? Does he like you? If he stands you up, get the facts first before you walk. You may even want to check out his story if he has a 'good' one.

Another thing, does he have a cell phone where he could have called you and told you he can't make it? Were you at a place he could call you and at least leave you a message? Sometimes things does happen that you can't help it. I hope this helps.

Answer 5

Don't worry about it until it happens. If you really like this guy and you know he has the same feelings then IF it does happen it probably won't be on purpose

But personally alot of good relationships are ruined by "what ifs". Now if he is in the habit of doing this, then he probably isn't as committed as you are to the relationship.

Don't stress chica. Just enjoy your bf.

Answer 6

I think you mean if a guy should stand you up!!!!!!

If he isn't there 1 hour and 1/2 after he says he'll come I'd hit the pavement to have some fun alone or call one of my friends over for us to go out together.

Answer 7

He probably went on a date with his other girl friend. I say keep him and date other people since he feels the need to date others. This will allow you to figure out which guy will make a great mate for you. You aint married to him. It's your world, your life.

Answer 8

So it hasn't acctually happened yet?? Well if it does, just keep your chin up and figure that A his dog got hit by a car, or B he's a complete ***, dont let other people get u down, and deffinatly dont freak out about what hasn't happened yet

Answer 9

Don't bother guessing about where the relationship will go. Just see what happens. He might not stand you up after all. Don't ruin something over a guess. You need to trust him.

Answer 10

Unless there was a real reason I wouldn't bother going further. You probably said something that is incompatable with him. Or he is playing the field and trying to pick the one that's the most like him.

Answer 11

rip him a knew hole k- all u got to do is make his like suck tell him off take him out somewhere and dump a glass of whatever ur drinking on him and slap him make a big scene then find out ways that u can mess up his day even if it means that it has nothing to do with u! pay a big guy to scare him and then kick his ***!